MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
A good reason to never get into an affair!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Sounds like a good reason to get the best lawyers you can afford.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i seriously do not understand why black people still live in the south. on death row for fvcking a white woman basically. and her fiancee actualy has a hsitory of beating women. and besides his DNA inside her, there is not a shread of evidence anywhere else lol. I mean, it's one thing to be convited of murder and you do your 20 year bid, that's bad enough but on death row with NO evidenceMatureDJ said: