"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A glaring and unfortunate omission on this site

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It seems to me that there should be an official "Success" section in this forum. Being a DJ is all about developing the inner game and being and feeling successful, and it's a shame that these discussions are relegated to the generic "anything else" section.

Doesn't our quest to attain and preserve personal financial success deserve a forum all its own? How can we make this happen?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Didn't you read the sticky?
 

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So you want a bragging forum?
 

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Ok, so far two replies from two idiots.

Yes, I read the sticky. I am talking about success strategies, not financial "advice". I'm talking about mindsets we can develop and adopt in order to succeed in life, whatever the definition of success is for each individual. I'm talking about developing successfull habits in life. Get it?

Judging by the lack of intelligence reflected in KillaCam's reply he must be under 17 years old or severely challenged so I'll let him slide this time.

Is anybody out there who feels we would benefit by having a place to discuss success strategies and insights?

Edit: I see KillaCam's age is in fact 17. That explains his reply, although I have read words of true wisdom from other kids on this site.
 

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Sun Tzu said:
Judging by the lack of intelligence reflected in KillaCam's reply he must be under 17 years old or severely challenged so I'll let him slide this time.
Yeah man, I can judge someone's intellegence by 6 words on an internet forum too. Thank you for letting it slide, you're so kind.

If my age is all you have to use against me, i'll head off and do something constructive. I don't like getting my feelings hurt by internet baddies :(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sun Tzu said:
Yes, I read the sticky. I am talking about success strategies, not financial "advice". I'm talking about mindsets we can develop and adopt in order to succeed in life, whatever the definition of success is for each individual. I'm talking about developing successfull habits in life. Get it?
Read your original post again, retard.
Doesn't our quest to attain and preserve personal financial success deserve a forum all its own?
 

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Slevin said:
Read your original post again, retard.
I'm feeling quite magnanimous tonight so I'm going to try to help you one last time.

The sticky pertains to exercising caution about taking specific financial advice from strangers. This is an excellent warning, in my opinion.

My thread, however, is about discussing habits, strategies, tactics, mind-sets, etc. geared specifically toward attaining success, financial and otherwise. What does a man think about his business when he wakes up in the morning? Indeed, what time does he wake up, and what time does he go to bed? What habits has he developed in his life that are designed to yield a life of success? What does he do on a daily basis to improve himself?

These are the things that I think would benefit the community. I couldn't give a rat's a$$ about what Joe Blow thinks I should invest in. That's why the sticky is there. Rather, I'm interested in sharing thoughts on the inner game.
 

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Sun Tzu said:
I'm feeling quite magnanimous tonight so I'm going to try to help you one last time.
:crackup:
My thread, however, is about discussing habits, strategies, tactics, mind-sets, etc. geared specifically toward attaining success, financial and otherwise. What does a man think about his business when he wakes up in the morning? Indeed, what time does he wake up, and what time does he go to bed? What habits has he developed in his life that are designed to yield a life of success? What does he do on a daily basis to improve himself?
None of which was mentioned in your op.
 
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