"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A girl gave me her phone number

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Just need some tips,

I went to this bar yesterday. When i got out the bar, i noticed a little paper with a girl name and her 2 phone numbers in my pocket. I have no idea who it is and I wonder if I should call her. After all, why didnt she talked to me? What does she look like?

Tell me what you think about it.
Should i even call her?
Should i call her this evening or wait for a couple of days?

Thx.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It might be a joke but I'd probably call out of curiousity if nothing else.

Yeah, wait a few days to call.
 
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I made a reverse lookup on the internet.
Names matches.
 
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Means that i entered her phone number and found her name and adress
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It was probably someone who knew this person, and could be a joke, or could be they were setting you/her up. I doubt the person on the card was the one who droped it into your pocket.

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Oh my gosh paranoia's a disease. So there might have been a possible cute girl taht was interested in u, and took the time to slip her phone number into u're pocket, but! instead of u to call and see and see if u click and maybe meet, u check her out for her info on the net. that sounds so scary, and even if it was a joke u'd get over it right, so Just Call! u never know what might happen, g/luck.
 
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I thought we were done with stupid questions on the "mature" board?
 
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