“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A Don Juan Battlefield - The Theme Park

Capodeciña

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With the most typical places to meet women, the clubs and bars, school, college and uni campuses and on the street, I was surprised to see hordes of beautiful women at a Theme Park recently.

What did Capodecina do? He got his azz kicked. Not literally, but having unexpected approach anxiety and a shyt load of social pressure. The weather that day was about 29c. I've never seen so much hot girls in one setting.

I hate to bring up a dead horse subject again, but I think "Looks Matter" alot. Most of the hot girls were with there boyfriends, these guys were very well toned and built, had faux hawkes', tattoos, good-looking, the social value and looked confident with there tops off. I was easily outmatched.

I held on to the notion desperately that with Game, you could compensate for looks (I am not ugly, average-to-above average.) But I no longer believe that, atleast 99.9% of the couples, boyfriends and guys hanging out with hot girls were GOOD-LOOKING.

Has anybody else noticed theme parks are chic magnets and not the media-played out families and little kids running around like they portray on the TV, some people there were obviously there to Pick Up or do amauter modelling and not go on any rides lol.

If you're going to a theme park, with beach, sun and humid weather, be prepared to bring your'e A-game! It's like Floatopia but just with an amusement park.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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kingsam

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Capodeciña said:
With the most typical places to meet women, the clubs and bars, school, college and uni campuses and on the street, I was surprised to see hordes of beautiful women at a Theme Park recently.

What did Capodecina do? He got his azz kicked. Not literally, but having unexpected approach anxiety and a shyt load of social pressure. The weather that day was about 29c. I've never seen so much hot girls in one setting.

I hate to bring up a dead horse subject again, but I think "Looks Matter" alot. Most of the hot girls were with there boyfriends, these guys were very well toned and built, had faux hawkes', tattoos, good-looking, the social value and looked confident with there tops off. I was easily outmatched.

I held on to the notion desperately that with Game, you could compensate for looks (I am not ugly, average-to-above average.) But I no longer believe that, atleast 99.9% of the couples, boyfriends and guys hanging out with hot girls were GOOD-LOOKING.

Has anybody else noticed theme parks are chic magnets and not the media-played out families and little kids running around like they portray on the TV, some people there were obviously there to Pick Up or do amauter modelling and not go on any rides lol.

If you're going to a theme park, with beach, sun and humid weather, be prepared to bring your'e A-game! It's like Floatopia but just with an amusement park.
what park was that?
 

CaptainJ

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Thorpe Park in Surrey, England.

British girls are hot and a cut above the rest. I thought my accent would get me in, but it didn't. Odd lol.
tbh I'd rather be riding on Colossus than bother approaching chicks
 

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Capodeciña said:
Thorpe Park in Surrey, England.

British girls are hot and a cut above the rest. I thought my accent would get me in, but it didn't. Odd lol.

haha thats funny (i actually thought coz of ur profile you would be talking about some brazilian park!)

i worked at Thorpe for like 4 years... was even flashed by some girl once...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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these guys were very well toned and built, had faux hawkes', tattoos, good-looking
Did you really just use the term faux hawk and good looking in the same sentence?

I held on to the notion desperately that with Game, you could compensate for looks (I am not ugly, average-to-above average.) But I no longer believe that, atleast 99.9% of the couples, boyfriends and guys hanging out with hot girls were GOOD-LOOKING.
I think you may be selling yourself short. If you're really "average to above average" in the look department, you would probably be considered good looking by most. If someone saw you out there with some hot looking chick they would probably be thinking "there goes another good looking guy with a hot chick".
 

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OP:

You got part of it right. Looks matter but probably not the way you think. Looks matter to the extent that you dress at least semi-cool/respectable, don't have long, greasy hair like a caveman, and don't look like someone mom would pick out for them to date (because you're too safe/boring to try anything), and that you don't look super timid and scared of women.

Women want someone who is going to bang their brains out like an animal. If you are soooo good boy looking and timid, then they cannot fathom you being able to do so.

Now there really are very boring women, mormon type women, women who live with parents til they are 30 and so on out there, especially in rural areas who respond less discriminatingly or to different criterion but basically that's probably not what you are looking for.

Im suggesting that you have the power to transform your appearance if you can wrap your head around what you need to accomplish. You don't need anything crazy, you just need to look like a guy who has it together and be confident that you can make a woman *** and let them know you're interested and unashamed that you like *****.
 

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don't have long, greasy hair like a caveman
Wait, wait, I thought women were attracted to cavemen! I thought that was what all this game theory was based on :)

By the way, your post was a perfect cue for one of the Geico cavemen to enter.
 

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zekko said:
Did you really just use the term faux hawk and good looking in the same sentence?


I think you may be selling yourself short. If you're really "average to above average" in the look department, you would probably be considered good looking by most. If someone saw you out there with some hot looking chick they would probably be thinking "there goes another good looking guy with a hot chick".

faux hawks are ftw, you should see my hair :p it looks good but the confidence i get when i do it up is unparalleled, not to mention all the compliments.

thorpe park has stealth which is one of the best rides ive ever been on :D
 
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