“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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A couple samples from Warren Farrell's book, Why Men Are The Way They Are.

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I recently ordered and started reading this book; and, although I havn't completed it in full, I have been quite enthralled by its brilliance.

This book is a Red-Pill must for guys who wish to extract more insight to the female psyche; pry open their pre-conditioned beta-ness and exorcise the rotten rationale of feminism and its idiotic ideas. Or, to feed their already expanding perceptions of Game.

I picked these samples because, for one, this book was difficult to come across online, and so I have to transfer the writing directly from my hard copy. There are many other samples I could give but these will suffice for now.

To note: this was written back around 1985. In the book you will find Farrell making tons of parallels to women's magazine's and the sublimal effect such media mediums have had on the mass female population.

VIRGINAL SEX

"Each Christmas and birthday I debate between two types of parents for Megan, the daughter of my woman friend: those I think she should have and those I know she'll love. When she was eight to twelve years old there were two things I knew would make it in the "I love" category: unicorns and posters of heroes. This was true of her girlfriends as well. It's taken me all this time to understand the connection. With neither the unicorn nor the male star on the wall did Megan have to deal directly with her sexuality. It was not like having a picture of one of the boys in her class on her dresser. None of the boys in her or her girlfriend's classes could make it to this star status, so Megan and her girlfiend's did not have to deal directly with their sexuality.

Of course, there were different types of male heroes on Megan's wall--or different images representing how her sexuality might eventually be channeled. In the same manner, for boys, different types of performing, sports, scholastics, or stealing--are different kinds of experiments to become heroes, to be wanted BY different types of girls.

Why is it that so many different types of girl's first posters on the wall are male and boys' first posters on the wall are also male and later female? And why are boy's male heroes also male performers? Because a boy must learn to perform--to earn a female. For him, the more attractive the female the less likely she is just magically to come along. He must earn his way to equality with her. So his posters are of male role models: the role he must play to have access to his fantasy female.

When can a boy make the transition to the female on the wall? When he has tried his hand at performing and is ready to make the relatively short transition between fantasizing and being directly sexual. At that point, he usually changes to nude or seminude posters of women. Similarly, a girl's male-performer posters reinforce her unconscious notion that it's fine for the man to do the performing for her. That ideally she can skip the performance stage herself and can "magically musk" or "magically make up" her way to his performance, tame it, and call it love.

She is deciding the type of performer she should be sexual with; he is deciding to perform how to get sex. The bodies the boy puts on the wall are Miss June, Pet-of-the-Month, etc. Not names of real people. Rather, they are interchangable parts. A girl's heroes do not APPEAR like interchangable parts; they have real names. But the moment Michael Jackson fell out of favor with the press, he came off Megan's wall. her heroes ARE actually interchangable parts. Their interchangability is simply better masked, which makes us think better of the female, "that women don't exploit and objectify." Underneath, it's his sex object and her success object.

What is the relationship between the horn on the white horse, the prince on the white horse, and the hero on the wall? The all offer the female child the IDEAL of skipping sex itself, skipping a career, and being "flashdanced" magically to security, adventure, and fame by a male performer.

What are some alternative gifts of posters I consider healthy? What do I buy Megan that I think she should have? Posters of female Olympic gymnasts to tie into her gymnastic interests, a baseball bat, a soccer ball. But more important than buying the baseball bat is using it with her--setting up games with rules that allow her a 60-40 chance of winning if she really tries. So she can become her own hero."


HOW TO MARRY MONEY

"In New York City a therapist and autor teaches a popular course called "Marrying Up." She has written a book of the same name. In San Diego there is a highly popular course called "How to Marry Money." Note that the marriage is to the money--not to a person. I inquired about the percentage of men attending."Oh, I have to warn men," the instructor replied. "They're welcome to attend, but the course is really for women. I mean, it's not relevant to men."

Both courses are taught by women in self-improvement---one is a therapist, the other the director of Human Potential Unlimited. There is no course for men called "Marrying Down." But what would a course parallel to "How to Marry Money" be for men? Would it be "How to Find Great Sex?" No. Because men also give sex--in fact, sometimes they beg to give it. (women attending "How to Marry Money" are not begging to give money equally).

Would it be "How to Pick Up Girls?" No. "How to Pick Up Girls" describes the work a man must do to get someone EQUIVALENT to himself. It implies he is not equal until he does this work. A legitamite equivalent for men would in fact be "How to Marry Money." But that IS the title. And almost no men attend.

What if they gave sexism and no one came?"


HOW TO MARRY MONEY

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"it's as easy to fall in love with a rich man as
with a poor one." The fantasy can come true if
you're willing to pay the price in planning, patience,
and persistence. We'll look at where the wealthy are
and how to decide if you have what it takes, prepare
for the search, develop your strategy, make connections,
and enjoy the whole process.
Barbara Jones is a human relations and communication
consultant, a researcher into upwardly mobile marriages,
and an astute observer of the social scene. She directs
Human Potential Unlimited.
Fee $25 one meeting class size 6-15
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HOW TO MARRY MONEY
this is scam but for women , just like "how to get a hot woman " for men .
rich men are very few less than 2% of population , there is no way for all women to get these 2% in monogamous cultures .
 

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evan12 said:
this is scam but for women , just like "how to get a hot woman " for men .
rich men are very few less than 2% of population , there is no way for all women to get these 2% in monogamous cultures .

a man doesnt have to be mega bucks wealthy, doctors, lawyers, high managers, business owners...anyone with a good steady income that the woman can leech off, falls into the 'wealthy' or 'money' brackets, all can be abused and ripped off
 

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Night-hawk said:
What are some alternative gifts of posters I consider healthy? What do I buy Megan that I think she should have? Posters of female Olympic gymnasts to tie into her gymnastic interests, a baseball bat, a soccer ball. But more important than buying the baseball bat is using it with her--setting up games with rules that allow her a 60-40 chance of winning if she really tries. So she can become her own hero."
Um, OP.. that's exactly what feminism is. Making sure women don't have to rely on men for their empowerment. Not sure how that book is "anti-feminist" if he's training his daughter to be self-sufficient. That's what feminism is all about, "manosphere" histrionics notwithstanding.

Though in all fairness, if his daughter has sports stuff on her walls, she will very likely wind up as a very un-feminine kind of woman. Every athletic chick I ever met was borderline dyke. Reliance on men is sort of the underlying trait of femininity.

Was it Nietzsche or Schopenhauer who wrote:

"A man says I can, a woman says he can."

The beauty of feminism is that women can now exert influence on the world directly -- they no longer have to do so through men. When women no longer have to play the dependent role, I no longer have to play the provider role. And that's fantastic IMHO, because I utterly reject the traditional male role of beta husband.
 

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a man doesnt have to be mega bucks wealthy, doctors, lawyers, high managers, business owners...anyone with a good steady income that the woman can leech off, falls into the 'wealthy' or 'money' brackets, all can be abused and ripped off
I've been thinking lately about traditional gender roles, and how they are changing. I saw some older clip on TV, it was a woman talking about how they relied on men to support them. It kind of reminded me of how a child might be supported, although of course women have always had their role of producing and taking care of the children.

What struck me about this was how all this time, thousands of years, women have relied on men to support them, to provide for them, to protect them, to take care of them. And only now, after all this time, in the last 100 years or so, has there been a big movement among them to take care of themselves. It seems kind of strange, I'm not sure what to make of it.
 

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a man doesnt have to be mega bucks wealthy, doctors, lawyers, high managers, business owners...anyone with a good steady income that the woman can leech off, falls into the 'wealthy' or 'money' brackets, all can be abused and ripped off
then they less than 10% of population , so there are 10 women competing to one high income man , and don't forget the statistic was not based on gender , so if we take out females , it will remain 7%
 

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True, but there are 10 men competing for every 1 beautiful woman.

Let's face it, if you're an unsuccessful guy or an ugly woman, your options in this world are very, very limited. Always have been, always will be.
 

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True, but there are 10 men competing for every 1 beautiful woman.

Let's face it, if you're an unsuccessful guy or an ugly woman, your options in this world are very, very limited. Always have been, always will be.
that is the natural selection , which is not fair that is why animals do their best to get the best , we should do the same .
promising women they can all get that rich business man , is same as some promise men that all of them can get that 10 hot girl .
 

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^^^I'm not sure exactly what you're saying there, but it seems you have an issue with the entirety of western civilization. "Promising" men hot women and women successful men is the foundation of our consumer culture. Men purchase stuff that makes them seem successful and women purchase stuff that makes them seem beautiful. Take that away and the whole society crumbles.
 

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In its beginnings, feminism was about elevating women to the SAME level as men, in a civil sense.

Now, it's about elevating women ABOVE men, in an entitlement and gender superiority sense.

IMHO most women have eternal pen!s-envy. But they dont understand their own dichotomy. At their core they all want to be that beautiful unique snowflake princess who is swooped off her feet by prince charming. They want to be cherished, cared for, and prized. On the other hand, they are constantly having a social pissing contest with us men. "Look what we can do!!!" Well congratulations, it's called being a fvcking adult. Do you want a parade thrown in your honor?

They try so hard to NOT be vulnerable that it turns off the masculine men, or they end up with beta schlubs who are subservient to their every whim. Kind of a tragedy.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Zarky said:
^^^I'm not sure exactly what you're saying there, but it seems you have an issue with the entirety of western civilization. "Promising" men hot women and women successful men is the foundation of our consumer culture. Men purchase stuff that makes them seem successful and women purchase stuff that makes them seem beautiful. Take that away and the whole society crumbles.
not really , I am just not fan of feminism .
 

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"Men are socialized to want sex as long as only ONE condition is fulfilled--physical attraction. for each sex, the demand is so great in relation to the supply, each perceives himself or herself as sexually unfulfilled, and therefore powerless in this area. But being cautious until more conditions are met, WOMEN GAIN ENORMOUS SEXUAL LEVERAGE POWER OVER MEN. THEY CAN USE THIS POWER TO GET THE EXTERNAL REWARDS OF WHICH THEY FEEL DEPRIVED. An example is "marrying up.""

"A man often feels subconsciously that a woman's minimum requirements are greater than his wildest fantasies.
The second reason a man rarely articulates his sexual powerlessness is that he has become so much of a performer--meeting the nine conditions--in our society, which has brainwashed us into calling that performance "power," that he can't imagine that much of his performance is a compensation for his sexual powerlessness."

"The gap between a woman's desire for the conditions she would like fulfilled--such as emotional connections--and the conditions she actually gets fulfilled is reflected in compensatory mechanisms such as "women's magazines." romance novels, and soap operas, all of which hold out the fantasy of the integration of sex with the right conditions. The male gap is reflected in a man's compensatory mechanisms like pornogrpahy and prostitution: pornogrpahy gives him attractive women vicariously for little money, prostitution directly for more money. Both help him avoid being rejected for not meeting the nine conditions.
For women, learning to depend on the power fo youth, beauty, and sexuality turn beauty and sexuality into power tools rather than internal sources of fulfillment, which thereby denies a woman the very integration within herself she was socialized to desire for both herself and her man.
Men's first incentive to change, then, comes from redefining power; it comes with understanding their experience of powerlessness (while not denying the female experience of powerlessness). Men do not change by being persuaded that one component of power means "men have the power." That just keeps men blind to real power."
 
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