A couple of questions

[white cloud 8]

Hi,

I just have a couple of quick questions:

1) If a girl starts to talk sh*t to u, should u act like whatever she is saying doesn't phase u and walk away? Or those girls who think their the sh*t, I don't give them the time or day

2) I finding that before I was so self-conscious of how I walked, acted, presented myself infront of people in public but, now I just don't give a sh*t and don't think about it, would it be shown as more natural?

3) Another thing I convinced myself of is not everyone is going to like you in life, no matter how hard u try or if u see a really hot girl with an ugly mofo and she doesn't notice u if your really good-looking, is it just chemistry? You'll attract some girls that are attractive and ones that are dirt ugly?

 

[MercutioTHEGREAT]

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[MercutioTHEGREAT]

ummm i said something but i edited all out your basiclly awnsering your own questions....

 

[JonJack]

It's not chemistry or whatever. It is just a situation. A situation where an individual (the girl) meets you (also an individual). The girl then responds to you (whether it is a response based on your looks, body language, what you say, etc....). Guys basically do the same thing with girls. So, the girls that approach you or entertain your approaches respond to you positively. Those that give you the cold shoulder or talk shyt to you respond to you negatively. This is just how things are. The people that get more positive responses enjoy that because they've molded their personality and character to get more positive responses from people. These people choose to be polite. They choose to be funny. They choose to participate in all sorts of activities. They choose to be entertaining. They choose to groom themselves.

If you dislike negative responses from girls, then you're lacking confidence. You haven't really found yourself yet. You feel you could do better, and you should. This is where you begin understanding what you want yourself to be and at the same time you accept how people respond to you, even if its negatively.