"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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a confession to Mature Men, and deep appreciation

Boilermaker

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I used to come here a lot while opening my eyes for the first time, and I would read and read and read and absorb every little theory and idea ..

I am 25, I recently ended (we ended) a 5-year on-off LTR/LDR and I finally realized my potential theoretical knowledge, by f-closing this gorgeous 19-year old college chick into 2 weeks of my break-up, starting from rock bottom. I defused her LMRs (in our first date, she came to my place and we fvcked), I continually defuse her sh!t tests by being ****y & funny and playfully asking things in return, and keeping tension - NEVER, EVER letting her believe that I am completely hers... To be honest the ridiculous thread on opening the car door for a woman helped me a lot!!

Although I still have a very humble social network, I am simulating the ideal mind of an alpha male with many options to operate my relations with women. Immediately after I went into the field, having accumulated enough theory on my belt, I collected the fruits of my efforts.

Now my only problem is my relative inexperience in sex ( my 19-year old girlfriend seems much more experienced) ... I am realizing dimensions I never knew existed in the game.

My PhD adviser told me (in another context) the other day: "The best way to develop your brains is to use your hands" ... and I believe going out there and practicing this stuff is AT LEAST as important as knowing theory. Of course, as a theorist I always advocate an edge for theory and rational thinking; but practice is very, very important.

I just wanted to give my sincere thanks and appreciation to everybody here in sosuave who have improved my understanding in different ways. My special thanks go to all time greats like Rollo, Redpill, Jophil and others..

Finally, another realization after I refreshed myself was to see that a woman can never be an ultimate destination for a man. I am already trying to find ways to improve my work, striving for impactful research and doing quality work.

Women as complementary beings help me keep a clear head during my ultimate journey in life.

Thank you sosuave, thank you almighty mature men!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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