It seems like it is race whining season again so I might as well add my two cents as someone who has seen men of all races get hot girls. While I'll admit it is rare to see men of certain races (Asian and Indian in particular) do well, when it does happen and among the guys which it happens to, there are just certain things I've noticed almost every single time.
The main one is how they mentally transcend their race and see themselves as individuals.
The guys I know who struggle with women see themselves as race first and individuals second, this creates a massive victim mentality which is very difficult to overcome. Guys I know who manage to get hot girls of all races and be that rare exception see themselves as individuals first and race is way down on their list of things they see themselves as.
By default, white guys kinda already have this advantage while minorities have to work on some serious inner game in order to see themselves as a person first and race second. The second you start seeing yourself as mainly your race is the second you limit yourself because then you start applying the worst stereotypes about your race to yourself.
It is no secret that the Asian and Indian guys I knew who were exceptions to the rule grew up around white people and avoided people of their own race, not falling victim to the "woe is me" victim's mentality.
Most of these guys don't care much for racial politics involving their own race, they just don't care because they mentally see themselves as above it all. "Facts" and "figures" don't concern them, they just don't care about any of it, somehow they've mentally risen above being seen as their race.
When girls and others bring it up, they casually deflect it and move on.
It is like they have freed themselves from the shackles and chains to where they don't let race bother them all that much or even consume much of their time. They don't feel any allegiance to a race, only to themselves.
The main one is how they mentally transcend their race and see themselves as individuals.
The guys I know who struggle with women see themselves as race first and individuals second, this creates a massive victim mentality which is very difficult to overcome. Guys I know who manage to get hot girls of all races and be that rare exception see themselves as individuals first and race is way down on their list of things they see themselves as.
By default, white guys kinda already have this advantage while minorities have to work on some serious inner game in order to see themselves as a person first and race second. The second you start seeing yourself as mainly your race is the second you limit yourself because then you start applying the worst stereotypes about your race to yourself.
It is no secret that the Asian and Indian guys I knew who were exceptions to the rule grew up around white people and avoided people of their own race, not falling victim to the "woe is me" victim's mentality.
Most of these guys don't care much for racial politics involving their own race, they just don't care because they mentally see themselves as above it all. "Facts" and "figures" don't concern them, they just don't care about any of it, somehow they've mentally risen above being seen as their race.
When girls and others bring it up, they casually deflect it and move on.
It is like they have freed themselves from the shackles and chains to where they don't let race bother them all that much or even consume much of their time. They don't feel any allegiance to a race, only to themselves.