8 Visual Cues that you have lost frame in the relationship.

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8 Visual Cues that you have lost frame in the relationship.

Have these happened to you? If so, you better up your game fast or it over....

1. She is driving, you are in the passenger seat. You once were in the driver seat, but she complained about the speed, your choice of parking spots at the mall, restaurant, etc., what lane you passed on, etc. You basically succumbed to the nagging and felt it was best for your mental health to shut up and keep quiet.

2. When you walk, she leads, you follow. You are constantly standing behind her group conversations. When you are out with a group of friends, she’s walking with her friends and not you. She’s the first to open the door in any public setting. If you are constantly looking at the back of her head and it’s not in doggystyle...it’s the beginning of the end.

3. You’ve held her purse. If only once, consider it pretty much over.

4. She goes to bed before you. You were so boring that she’d rather sleep and shut herself off for the day instead of staying up and getting quality time with you. Remember when you’d go out and eat breakfast at 2am for fun after a full day of work? Is she suddenly not physically able to do that for you?

5. She got fat. She quit trying to impress you and got lazy because she got the victory: a commitment from you. A good woman will always work to keep herself in top shape. It speaks volumes about her character and her respect for you. She got fat because she thinks you can’t do better and she assumes you’ll never leave her anyways.

6. She interrupts you. You are out with a group of people and you are telling an interesting story and she cuts you off mid sentence to interject something meaningless. When a powerful man talks, does he ever get interrupted? No.

7. No eye contact. When you talk, she doesn’t even look at you. Apparently staring at that game of Candy Crush is far more interesting than sitting across from you at lunch.

8. No sex. A woman won’t bang a guy she has lost respect for. You can be a ripped stud, have a great face, and be the most intelligent guy in the room. But if she doesn't respect you, she doesn’t see you as valuable in any capacity. Somewhere down the line you became too passive, too beta, too emotional….none of these are attractive traits to a woman. You might have been brash, pushy, stubborn, and alpha in the beginning, but she sh!t-tested you and you failed. You lost frame.

 

[Skyy.]

There is another man on your bed. A women who has respect for their partner will never have another man on the bed. This is a sign that you are not meeting her emotional or physical needs. You do not need to confront her, do things that made fall in love with you in the first place. If you continue to see random men on your bed, maybe it's time to consider moving out.

-Abby

 

[Zarky]

1. She is driving, you are in the passenger seat.

This can go either way. Keep in mind that true pimps take the traditionally female role in the relationship. That is, the woman makes the money and gives it to him. The woman drives and he rides in the passenger seat. The woman supplies the material support while he supplies the emotional support. He decks himself out in fancy, eye-catching clothing like furs and jewelry. That sort of thing.

I actually like it when women drive because that switches up the male/female dynamic. I also find that when the woman drives, she's more likely to pay for whatever it is we're going to do. When you constantly take the traditionally masculine role, she starts to see you as a provider, I believe. And I think we all want to avoid that role.

So yes, if she's driving because she's nagged you to death, that's a problem. But if she's driving because you want to flip the frame and make her the provider and caretaker for the evening (or for the relationship), I think that's just fine.