Bishop The
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
7 Year LTR at age 16
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TheMonkeyKing
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Time to man up, sausage. This essay reads like it is written by a feminised man. Also, learn how to use tl;dr.
-Go out, and engage with other dudes in masculine activities.
-Re-define how you view women and learn what it really means for a man to love one (rather than being infatuated).
-Re-define yourself and how you relate to others.
-Make yourself a priority; be the centre of your own existence instead of revolving round others.
-Spin plates, work out, expand your intellect.
-Repeat.
-Go out, and engage with other dudes in masculine activities.
-Re-define how you view women and learn what it really means for a man to love one (rather than being infatuated).
-Re-define yourself and how you relate to others.
-Make yourself a priority; be the centre of your own existence instead of revolving round others.
-Spin plates, work out, expand your intellect.
-Repeat.
PantyWhisperer
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Would have liked to have seen the OP. Why deleted?