6th or 7th, but first time at my house!

[Scorched]

I lost count, 6th or 7th date, hell I'll count this as the 7th.
One was an airport ride.

I have tons of experience dating a girl for the first few dates, but after that I'm kind of new at it... I actually want it to last with this girl! I quite enjoy her company & loyalty.

I'm lame, this girl hasn't even been to my house yet.
We've been out times already! I'm wondering if I should try to bang or play my cards safe and cuddle all night. I want to keep the challenge going a little bit... but then again I do want to bang her... but it would be more like making love. Wow I'm a freaking pansy eh? More like a hopeless romantic!

I met her off myspace LOL LOL LOL, but she just moved from cali to here for work so... a little Latin friend
Originally we both just planned on being friends!

Timeline...
1st date, Friday = Dinner (I showed little interest!)
Called her like 3 days later... the next day she called me back and I asked for a 2nd date. 2nd date, Sat, 8 days after 1st = Dinner/walked around this huge rainforest/hotel. 3rd date = Xmas stuff + movie! The only reason I didn't kiss her when she wanted to was simply because she was about to leave town for a week! This actually played well into my favor because she texted me an hour later sad... Tis she realized how much she liked me. So I pushed things a step further by inviting her to my work on xmas. I worked alone on xmas keeping our network up We made out at my work for 45 mins! She wouldn't stop kissing me to leave! 2 days later I took her to the airport and kissed her good bye, but only after she gave me eye contact and practically said kiss me. Over the week that we were apart she told me she missed me, etc... Hmmmm She asked me to pick her up from the airport, I did and we went to a party where I met the few friends she has here... That night I got pulled over by the cops @ 3 am for a tail light out. Then we made out for like 30 minutes in front of her house. 2 days later I didn't answer 2 of her texts... So that night she has a dream I'm "in the hospital and I wolk up crying!" Again she realizes how much she likes me So once again I want to take it up a to the next level... but what is that level? Banging or just cuddling...

It's been 5 days since I've seen her... She said she wants to
"take it to the next level" Does she mean being official or sex... I think it's more of sex. Maybe wishful thinking?

Thoughts? Bang or make out / cuddle?
Maybe there is a 3rd option?
I could... make out / cuddle with her, and if she stays the night after we both fall asleep we both wake up and just start ****ing. LOL I actually like option 3 -

Feed back bros?

 

[GiZiM]

I say you take it slow if she wants to bang she will make the moves like she is wanting to bang. She seems like she has taking a liking to you so you wanna play the cards right if you are a hopeless romantic. Take it slow the moves she makes the way she acts that night will tell the story and how she wants the night to unfold. Remember that night keep your eyes and ears open!.

Good luck

 

[Scorched]

correct

Yeah, I shouldn't really be planning it out.
If she doesn't come on strong I'll just cuddle.
But next time I'M GONNA BANG!

 

[GiZiM]

Re: correct

Originally posted by Scorched
Yeah, I shouldn't really be planning it out.
If she doesn't come on strong I'll just cuddle.
But next time I'M GONNA BANG!

Well i would set the night up to be nice and all if you want to bang you know set the night up and the mood like you want to. Nothing wrong with setting the mood in the direction you are wanting it to go. The key is not to come on to strong set the pace of the night.

 

[Scorched]

Nice, I'm really into this girl, but of course she doesn't know that

Should I burn a candle then? Set the moooood that way?
We are going to dinner before hand, then... a move at my place.
A romantic comedy like Hitch would suffice? Or... The 40 year old virgin...? Any others that are a bit new?

 

[GiZiM]

Originally posted by Scorched
Nice, I'm really into this girl, but of course she doesn't know that

Should I burn a candle then? Set the moooood that way?
We are going to dinner before hand, then... a move at my place.
A romantic comedy like Hitch would suffice? Or... The 40 year old virgin...? Any others that are a bit new?

Believe me women know more than you think don't under estimate them she has already ran the "getting married" play out thru her head already a hundred times by now. I would say candles are a bit much if its just a movie but couldnt hurt think about moving dinner to your house that will give you points like you wouldnt believe. Dinner is nice but i always felt if you went to dinner and then movie at your house you are bringing the night to a close which means she might be getting tired and ready for bed. Then you are moving into cuddle land i say if you want to BANG dinner and move in for that play the night right.

 

[Scorched]

/chicken - I dunno how to cook much.
Damn that makes me think, I really need to work on that!

I guess i'll figure it all out in good, time!
I'll post back and let ya know what happens Friday

Thanks,

 

[GiZiM]

Originally posted by Scorched
/chicken - I dunno how to cook much.
Damn that makes me think, I really need to work on that!

I guess i'll figure it all out in good, time!
I'll post back and let ya know what happens Friday

Thanks,

Don't have to ... order something in make it early before she gets there have it all out on a plate and looking like u made it. Have pans and everything else on the stove to give the image you just got done cooking.

 

[Scorched]

nice, I think I'll be a fag and get her to teach me how to cook next time she comes over That would actually be fun and a great learning process for me.

The cooking idea was god like, GiZiM you sir are a god!

Well thanks again, will post update,

 

[GiZiM]

Originally posted by Scorched
nice, I think I'll be a fag and get her to teach me how to cook next time she comes over That would actually be fun and a great learning process for me.

The cooking idea was god like, GiZiM you sir are a god!

Well thanks again, will post update,

Very good idea now you are thinking.
/bow

 

[Mr. Delicious]

I think you should bang her next time. She probably wants a serious relationship and banging comes with the territory

Thanks for the post on my myspace girl thread btw

 

[Scorched]

banged!
but I wasn't patient...
lesson learned though...
I have to play hard to get in the bed as well. lol but not too hard...

 

[GiZiM]

Originally posted by Scorched
banged!
but I wasn't patient...
lesson learned though...
I have to play hard to get in the bed as well. lol but not too hard...

Congrats!
Wasnt patient? dude thats called rape

 

[Borgon]

I would say try to bang her, atleast touch the taco to see how wet it gets. If she isnt ready she will let you know, but other than that go for it.