I've never understood social proof. Obviously I've never had it. I don't think it matters after high school though. Or does it? How does one even get social proof?
Social proof means people want to talk to you, you know people. If they are female, it's even better. Social proof is one of the most important things you can have. In a club for example you get social proof by befriending as many people in there as you can so that they recognize you. It gives off the illusion that you are someone important.
As long as your not slouching and walk with good posture there isn't much else. As far as I can tell I have good body language.
Equally important as social proof. Look at Cajun in this episode of Keys to the VIP. His bodylanguage is what gets the chicks, not his words. He has perfected that art and there is WAY more to it than what you described.
http://video.google.ca/videoplay?docid=2009352446961728591
The most important thing on the list. Also the hardest to achieve.
If you're not in an environment where you dance it's irrelevant. If nobody sees you dance then they have no idea how good you can dance
I'm talking about a club environment here. The best dancers get the most attention. Boosts your social proof through the roof!
Takes a lot of work but it's no excuse. I work out 3 times a week at the gym and I picked up a copy of DDR so now I'm basically doing some form of exercise 7 days a week. One thing you didn't mention is height. Women like tall guys and if your short (like me) then you are at a disadvantage.
Yes you are, but as I said earlier you have to compensate by being big and muscular then. Good that you hit the gym!
Everybody has a different idea of what style is. I don't have a clue and all I do is try to wear clothes that properly fit me and that aren't dorky. I also have a limited budget.
This is a make or break deal. Forget hip hop clothes or A&F clothes. Don't just dress up for special occasions. Wear it everyday! You HAVE to look like a winner in order to get the hottest babes. THIS IS A MUST!
This is what winners in life look like and this is what turns heads:
http://www.slashfilm.com/wp/wp-content/images/oceans13still72.jpg
IMO, Positive Energy (confidence) is many times more important than everything else. It's also something I have been struggling with for my whole life. Only recently have I realized that it's actually affecting my chances with women and explains why I have had no success. How to actually get confidence without any success is a mystery I have yet to solve.
Find out your purpose in life (What makes you unique and how you can help other people!) and pursue goals. That is what gives you the most confidence. Once you find out your purpose I guarantee you your confidence will shoot through the roof because 95% of all people never figure out their purpose!
