"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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5 Qualities You must have to succeed in the game.

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I found this on a business forum but it applies to the game as well as business. I added a few touches to make it relevant. succeed
The very first quality one must possess if he wants to win is the willingness to learn and be trained. Treading through unfamiliar territory is scary stuff if one is not properly equipped, and he might get lost amidst a jungle of the unknown. Learning the tricks of the trade is also an important aspect of the game, and one’s willingness to know it all will give him far better advantages in the game than he could ever

The second quality one must possess is the willingness to invest time and effort even if direct results do not seem at all apparent. Although several months may pass without good news, it is important for one who has his foot in the game to hold on and wait. It is this quality which would save him from giving up after investing a lot of himself in the game.

The third quality one must possess is self-determination. If one wants to conquer this world, he must have the ability to push himself ahead. Never having to say die is a quality each and every player should possess, and the ability to motivate oneself into scaling greater heights is an ability which would actually take you there.

The fourth quality one must possess is discipline. If one knows how to teach himself to work everyday with all the energy he can muster, then he is close to achieving what he has set his heart to having in the first place.

The fifth and last quality one must possess is optimism. Negative attitudes and hearsays should not discourage one from pursuing what he has to in order to make life better for himself and for everyone concerned. Neither should anyone influence his attitude toward the game, because once in it, it is a must for him to be the captain of his ship and the master of his soul.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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you know.. success is not hard.

all of the things pretty much teach the same when you really boil down to it.


The 16 laws of success

Law 1 - Introduction
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Law 2 - A Definite Chief Aim
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Law 3 - Self-Confidence
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Law 4 - The Habit Of Saving
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Law 5 - Initiative and Leadership
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Law 6 - Imagination
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Law 7 - Enthusiasm
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Law 8 - Self-Control
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Law 9 - The Habit Of Doing More Than Paid For
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Law 10 - Develop A Pleasing Personality
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Law 11 - Accurate Thought
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Law 12 - Concentration
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Law 13 - Co-operation
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Law 14 - Failure
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Law 15 - Tolerance
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Law 16 - The Golden Rule



What is the backbone of AA?

Honesty
Open Mindedness
and
Willingness

It takes the same traits to be a recovering addict, as it takes to start a successful business, as it takes to mac that girl in the corner in those heels with the tight red dress on.
 

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backbreaker said:
you know.. success is not hard.

all of the things pretty much teach the same when you really boil down to it.


The 16 laws of success

Law 1 - Introduction
​
Law 2 - A Definite Chief Aim
​
Law 3 - Self-Confidence
​
Law 4 - The Habit Of Saving
​
Law 5 - Initiative and Leadership
​
Law 6 - Imagination
​
Law 7 - Enthusiasm
​
Law 8 - Self-Control
​
Law 9 - The Habit Of Doing More Than Paid For
​
Law 10 - Develop A Pleasing Personality
​
Law 11 - Accurate Thought
​
Law 12 - Concentration
​
Law 13 - Co-operation
​
Law 14 - Failure
​
Law 15 - Tolerance
​
Law 16 - The Golden Rule



What is the backbone of AA?

Honesty
Open Mindedness
and
Willingness

It takes the same traits to be a recovering addict, as it takes to start a successful business, as it takes to mac that girl in the corner in those heels with the tight red dress on.
Agreed.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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