"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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30 days in a month

jhonny9546

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A month has about 30 days, and how you spend those days shapes your life.
For instance, I see my family four times a month, have dinner with my gym group once a month, meet my work group once a week, attend church twice a month, go out on dates once a week, etc...
I’m actually following a calendar with fixed days for social events to make them feel more regular.
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It would be a pleasure to hear what your ideal "30-day calendar" looked like during your best years when your social life thrived—not just because of dating but also due to finding balance and well-being. What are the activities you did, and how often did you do them each month?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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