3 months of friendship before sex

[GhostWriter]

Ultimatums are the worst thing a guy can give.

It shows that you are out of options. Not only that, but you relinquish any remaining power into her hands.

You've giving her the decision to make the outcome of your relationship.

From what I've learned, power is a necessity in relationships. It's detrimental to have too much power on any side, but infinitesimally better for the guy to have more.

RECAP: Ultimatums should never be used

 

[SgtSplacker]

I don't listen to fanciful things like that girls say. As the male in the relationship it's your job to be irresistible to her. I'd take her out a couple times, show her a great time. Take it to your room at the end of the night, hop in bed with just your boxers on and let the chips fall where they may. C'mon dudes, 90% of the one night stands out there would not happen if you stood the two people in front of each other sober and had them make a rational decision like that.