But I am not trying to lose weight. Despite my previous eating habits, I am really lean due to being so active.Originally posted by DirkPitt
Fasting works. Lost 65lbs here. have kept it off.
Muscles need to be fueled, not starved.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.