"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2nd date, she insists to pay!

Call_Me_Daddy

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trance_addict said:
lol yea

I do remember that she offered to pay for my coffee last time we went out, cuz I bought her dinner, but I didn't let her :)

So I think she's trying to "pay me back", for some reason. I'm a gentleman so of course I'll try to talk her out of it, just a bit strange that she'd behave this way.
WHAT?!!

So she OFFERED to PAY?! And you didn't let her?

Are you stupid? Why waste your money if you don't have to?

She was trying to do a nice and respectful thing for you and you cut her at the knees...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Call_Me_Daddy said:
WHAT?!!

...Are you stupid? Why waste your money if you don't have to?
NGS (Nice Guy Syndrome).
 
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