"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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25 y/o girl says i look 25 when im 18!

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well i just thought about it.. i dont look 25 at all. i look 18..

im 18. and i look like it.

i went out and met with this girl who was 24...

and she claims i look 25 even 26.

do u guys think she is implying that i dont look too young for her?

my thought is that she is making me think that im not too young for her and that she is interested in me... what are ur thoughts on this guys?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Vincent

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she's drunk

VERY drunk
 

Omega

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Bang her and find out?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Quit fooling yourself. You're 18 and look like a 25 year old fart. Face it, for the rest of your life you are going to look 7 years older than you really are. Go get a box of Depends and some Geritol. :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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