"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I signed up for this womens studies course in English. Come to find out I'm only one of two guys in a class of over 25 females...oh the possibilities.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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medmackinhoes said:
So I signed up for this womens studies course in English. Come to find out I'm only one of two guys in a class of over 25 females...oh the possibilities.

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Do not be AFC. Do not drool over them. Do not be needy.

Build some female friends FIRST. Flash your social value to the HOT ones.

It'll be very easy to game them after that.

As for the 2 guys, just befriend them and let them find their share of female species. :)
 
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The women in your class are going to think that you've taken the course only to game on them...prove them wrong, actually be interested in the course.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
The women in your class are going to think that you've taken the course only to game on them...prove them wrong, actually be interested in the course.
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This is true. I took a writing class a couple years back where there was only one other guy and twenty-something girls (and female professor). At the time I wasn't even thinking about getting girls and I really was interested in the class. I was always one to volunteer to do readings because I genuinely liked the material and wanted good feedback.

By the end of the class, several of the girls in the class approached me without me having to do anything but be interested in the course.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The women in your class are going to think that you've taken the course only to game on them...prove them wrong, actually be interested in the course.
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This :up:
 
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your lucky if they are hot. the womens studies class i was in was 80% girls but 79% were HB 1's
 
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^ university obviously sucks.

Anyways, tell me what you do and how it turns out. I'm personally very intrested in this because my Uni-is like 90% girls and most are at least HB7.5s at lowest. I usually do street game so I'm pretty shabby in a classroom enviroment, so lay some ground work, so your fellow man how to meet the huns in skhools.

(But seriously, post your final results.)
 
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You know how you can up your chances even more?

Take a French class. Seriously. It's not too useful in this country, so due to the 'language of love' BS it's guaranteed to at least be 3 girls to one guy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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daygameguy said:
Do not be AFC. Do not drool over them. Do not be needy.

Build some female friends FIRST. Flash your social value to the HOT ones.

It'll be very easy to game them after that.

As for the 2 guys, just befriend them and let them find their share of female species. :)
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Ok fellas, sorry for the late reply but I've been busy during the first week of class. So here's how things went.

First day of class I came off a little nervous that I was one of only two dudes in the place. The teacher of the course is females so of course we had to do one of those "get to know you" pow wows where everyone sits in a circle and introduced them self. After breaking the ice with a couple of girls in the class I gained some confidence and focused on the course--not the girls. In the entire class there's probably about 8 decent girls 4 lookers and about 12 no goes.

I noticed on the first day that my male counterpart came off real smooth at first--game recognize game so I introduced myself before class started. Fast forward to today(2nd day of class) I felt on point, I made my interest in the course noticeable and spoke up in class real confident like and said some pretty provocative things to get their blood rushing. I'm an artist so I began to draw in my notebook as the class was proceeding. This wasn't purposeful but I could feel the attention focused on me. Note to all artists out there--women love us--use your talent in your favor. Anyway, I layed down some nice foundation and made quite a few friends and a couple contacts. All in all it was a productive week:rockon:
 
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