"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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23 and nofap but **** problems

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I had first time se.x with this girl in her home but my D didnt want to stay strong. I barely made it to have some se.x after it went out and soft multiple times.

Then i focused on cu.uming quick and i did but she didnt.

She lied to me saying she did but it wasnt wet so i told her later she lied and she admited. I think she wanted to be nice

Ps maybe its because i shes not that sexy?

Why my D failed?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You should eat good quality oats or musli every day or a few times a week. Nature's Viagra. Never have a problem when I do.
 
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I had first time se.x with this girl in her home but my D didnt want to stay strong. I barely made it to have some se.x after it went out and soft multiple times.

Then i focused on cu.uming quick and i did but she didnt.

She lied to me saying she did but it wasnt wet so i told her later she lied and she admited. I think she wanted to be nice

Ps maybe its because i shes not that sexy?

Why my D failed?
Every time you try to talk sh1t to me, I'm gonna remind you of this post.

Sex isn't what you're good at. Stick to the bench press.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Long story short, your boner relies on the integrity of your circulation, and oats improve your circulation.

://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/270680.php
what else could be cause of bad circulation/of boner kill?

i workout 4 times a week, eat more than I need, dont eat sugar, i do drink a lot of coffee tho.

maybe my mental state is not at best place atm but my body is killing it


I have some oat bran, so ill eat it. Should I eat it day before sex, couple hr before sex, or everyday?
 

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what else could be cause of bad circulation/of boner kill?

i workout 4 times a week, eat more than I need, dont eat sugar, i do drink a lot of coffee tho.

maybe my mental state is not at best place atm but my body is killing it


I have some oat bran, so ill eat it. Should I eat it day before sex, couple hr before sex, or everyday?
If I know I'm gonna get laid, I generally don't work out too heavy, and vice versa

I also do find it difficult with women I'm not attracted to these days too. Also think about booze and drug intake. The White stuff will basically kill my d!CK for a week. Not that I really do it though anyway.
 

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If I know I'm gonna get laid, I generally don't work out too heavy, and vice versa

I also do find it difficult with women I'm not attracted to these days too. Also think about booze and drug intake. The White stuff will basically kill my d!CK for a week. Not that I really do it though anyway.
i was sober whent his happened.

Yeah white thing kills my **** instantly for one day. alcohol also makes it more "soft"

I didnt work out that day.
 

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Are you meeting (or getting a steady stream of) a lot of good-looking girls? Do you put a lot of time into that dating/sarging? Then yes, nofap will help. Otherwise, it's kinda pointless.

NoFap is basically like a "ramjet/scramjet" aircraft engine. Doesn't have the disadvantages of turbines, great at propelling aircraft to hypersonic speeds and doing a whole lot of cool stuff! The problem? You have to *already* be at supersonic speeds for it do anything!

Likewise, don't bother with nofap imo until you're getting to meet a reliable volume of girls (that you'd want to date) to begin with. Or, until you're flying the supersonic skies --- i.e., getting that high volume of good-looking girls!

*Edit: personally I'm focusing on the online dating segment. My profiles sucks (blurry pics no descriptions), and I gotta work on it. But, until it's worked out right and I'm getting a reliable stream of good-looking matches, there's no point in doing nofap. That's for afterwards when I have that stream and doing a lot of texting/meeting-up/etc. Basically, the key word is "volume" (yes I know you can get more "volume" with the chubbier ladies, but I need those better-looking ones in order to *improve* my game as the fatties will...generally be not much of a challenge. Chubbier chicks just don't play the hard-to-get thing that hard for me to improve my game lol).
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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One thing I got to say... figure it out... With the amount of **** these girls are being exposed to and choices.... you don't want to be the guy with the limp ****.

A heart healthy diet is a **** healthy diet...

But at 23 and if it is happening a lot.... Get yourself checked.
 

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Eat all the oats you want but it won't help because you're problem isn't physical. I was having the same issue a while back when I was with a new chick. D*ick would get rock hard for porn, no porn, but had trouble in the bedroom.

Try popping 10-20 mgs of Sildenafil next time you have sex. See what happens. A week ago, I took 10 mg about 2 hours before sex and another 10 mg about 15 min before sex and HOLY S*HIT. 30 minutes of sex, no c*um, called a halftime, another 35 minutes finally forcing myself to c*um. First time I was with this girl. I mean, I absolutely f*ucked this woman. Had a delayed backache about 3 days later but it cleared up. It was worth it. Needless to say, her interest is at about 99.9% right now, lol.
 
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Needless to say, her interest is at about 99.9% right now, lol.
I had to get an implant because eventually Viagra quit working for me. I am very glad that I do.

I feel like any girl I fvcked would have that same 99.9% interest level... But I just don't get the chances.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If I know I'm gonna get laid, I generally don't work out too heavy, and vice versa

I also do find it difficult with women I'm not attracted to these days too. Also think about booze and drug intake. The White stuff will basically kill my d!CK for a week. Not that I really do it though anyway.
seems i have really big circulation problem


my left leg ankle area got really really big and swollen. i googled and seems circulation could be culprit. connect that with penis not going up, bad.



could it be cause i gained too much weight recently (mainly fat + some muscles)? because i gained really a lot

**** idk what to do

my leg looks like im disabled
 

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The problem is hormonal. Your total/free testosterone is below normal. That's when you start having erection problems.

You gained too much body fat and when you have too much BF you are going to have low testosterone because BF converts test into estrogen which gives you limp ****.
Try to get in shape and eat a balanced diet.

My libido improved substantially when I lowered my body fat to 15%
 

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The problem is hormonal. Your total/free testosterone is below normal. That's when you start having erection problems.

You gained too much body fat and when you have too much BF you are going to have low testosterone because BF converts test into estrogen which gives you limp ****.
Try to get in shape and eat a balanced diet.

My libido improved substantially when I lowered my body fat to 15%
I was bulking thats why i got fat
 
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