"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 weeks notice?

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BeDJ

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I have secured a job and am currently weighing the advantages and disadvantages of leaving a 2 weeks notice. I am a key employee at my current job and know upper management will be pissed off to no end if I leave. I do not forsee them being reliable references in either case. It is a sales job so I am 99% sure they will fire me on the spot to protect their customers' accounts. I also plan to leave everyone at the company a $5 Starbucks card and a personal thanks for everything note and expect good references from my co-workers.

I do not feel like giving my employer the upper hand upon leaving who will most likely torture me to no end.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd say that you have it figured out just about right. I hope that the new job lets you clear about 50% more, without having to do overtime, to make up for the hassle.
 

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one tip : stop making others rich.
you can start a miniature company from your bedroom, you can work at your new job during the day and run your company during the night, ad time? well delete your facebook account and allocate that time to your business.

i don't know about you,but i don't like the idea of sitting on a chair and watch as my boss gets richer every day while i have to save for a new microwave oven....
im willing to throw away my current career for the sake of my own business,
my parents and friends aren't that happy about it but who cares?
filling teeth for all my life isn't as exciting as i thought it to be...
 
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