"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jizz

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1) I always seem to fall for the attention *****s, why is this and how do i conquer this?

2) gal used me because she was bored, how do i stop this? shes now into some other guy, there pretty much going out, but shes only with him coz he gives her loads of attention, she has no thoughts for guys feelings, how can i let her know without her hating me, how much power she has over guys feelings?

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RaWBLooD

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Originally posted by Jizz
1) I always seem to fall for the attention *****s, why is this and how do i conquer this?

u dont talk to attention hoes, talk to the shy girls.
2) gal used me because she was bored, how do i stop this? shes now into some other guy, there pretty much going out, but shes only with him coz he gives her loads of attention, she has no thoughts for guys feelings, how can i let her know without her hating me, how much power she has over guys feelings?

cheers
drop it
 

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Re: Re: 2 things

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
drop it
Im not into her anymore, im just a friend of hers now, i made that desicion not her, but i want her to know the way she is treating guys is wrong, shes a whole different person around guys than she is around her friends

its wrong, she knows exactly what to say etc etc, she loves the attention, and i want her to realise how much of a ***** she is being

should i just straight out tell her?
 

joekerr31

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listen, if you told me that you like to f*ck bears but that it really pissed you off that every time you went to f*ck a bear you got clawed to near death what do you think i'd say?

1) just becuase you like f*cking bears doesn't mean you have to be stupid enough to do it
2) if you do f*ck bears you're going to get hurt.

you like the attention wh*res becuase deep down you want a chic who acts like at any moment she might just rip your clothes off and start riding your dong. but then you also want her to be a nice proper woman when it comes to respecting her relationship with you.

i've learned over the years its MUCH easier to go after the shyer, more moral woman. They value commitment and respecting your feelings. and despite the fact that they dont look like they are sex fiends, the reality is they are probably wilder in bed than the attention wh*res.

the attention wh*res know they can get laid any time they want and most of them have. They've been banged enough times in their life that sex is not that big a deal for them.

now the shyer girls. once they trust you they will jump into the sac with you morning noon or night. and they'll do almost anything to please you.

anyway, grow up and stop going after the status chic / attention ***** and get yourself a cute down to earth girl. trust me, you'll enjoy the relationship and the sex more, and she'll be a positive addition to your life. versus the attention wh*re, who just saps all your will and focus.

J
 

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Re: Re: Re: 2 things

Originally posted by Jizz
Im not into her anymore, im just a friend of hers now, i made that desicion not her, but i want her to know the way she is treating guys is wrong, shes a whole different person around guys than she is around her friends

its wrong, she knows exactly what to say etc etc, she loves the attention, and i want her to realise how much of a ***** she is being

should i just straight out tell her?
she won't care.
and neither should you. you want to save this girl from herself because maybe then you'd get your fantasy of having a wh*re who acts proper at the same time.

just move on. she's goign to spend a good decade banging every guy who gives her attention, and unless you want to by her side you're better to just forget her
J
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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