"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal_water

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First a quick question about deadlifts. When you do your set, do you put the bar properly down on the floor between each rep or keep it just off the floor to keep all the muscles engaged?

Secondly, how can I increase pectoral mass? I do bench press, dips and Flys but I never see any increase. What do you do to increase Pec mass?
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DanZy

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Eternal_water said:
First a quick question about deadlifts. When you do your set, do you put the bar properly down on the floor between each rep or keep it just off the floor to keep all the muscles engaged? Depends on what you're going for. I set it down between reps

Secondly, how can I increase pectoral mass? I do bench press, dips and Flys but I never see any increase. What do you do to increase Pec mass?
Try incline bench and focus really hard on contracting your pecs when doing flys
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Ronaldo7

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When you do your set, do you put the bar properly down on the floor between each rep or keep it just off the floor to keep all the muscles engaged?

You always have to keep your muscles engaged. Constant pressure/tension each rep. Focus on contraction.

You need to bring the bar all the way down, but keep it just off the floor. Make sure your glutes are out.

how can I increase pectoral mass?

Are those all the exercises you do? How many sets? How many reps? How long are your rest periods?

Dumbbell Presses are something to incorporate, if you want to try something different to the bench press. Inclined or declined DB Press.

Have you tried cable flies? Hammer press machines?
 

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As far as deadlifts, I personally set the bar down between each rep and reset form. I dont believe in "touch n' go".
 
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