2 girls who like me

[TDOT]

I was introduced to this girl by a friend of mine who told me that she was really digging me. So she gives me her number and tells me to call her sometime. 3 or so weeks later I give her a call, left two messages no return. So about 4 weeks later I get a call from this chick out of the blue. When she was talking to me on the phone she acted like I should know who it is so I didn't ask, "who is this" even though I didn't know because I didn't want to offend her. So she asks me out on a "group date" and tells me I can invite some friends. So I call up this other chick who likes me and she wanted to go. So I give this "unknown girl" a call back and tell her me and the other chick can make it. She asks "who", I tell her. Then the next day it hit me who it was. It was the chick who didn't return my first to phone calls. I thought maybe she had lost interest or something but it turns out I was dialing the wrong number all along. I had two number switched around. So now I am going on a date and both of them are going to be there. They both like me and I'm not 100% sure how I should act or what I should do. I'm thinking since it is a group date, I'm going to ignore both of them and game a new girl I haven't met while I am there. Does that sound like a plan?

Please give me your thoughts.
Thanks
TDOT

 

[TDOT]

TDOT,
you have no need to be worried, this is a simple one:


Instead of trying to game any other girls they may be their friends, what you should do is still ignore them, but spend all your time talking to any other guys that are their that may also be their friend instead. You will probably make a new friend too and they still can't get mad at you in the end.

It will work, trust me.

These AFC amatuers, wow, I tell you, will they ever learn...!

 

[Panda 2000]

wtf?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Panda 2000
wtf?

I second that...

 

[DeathDealer]

You waited 3 weeks to call a girl. Stupid.

She proposes a group date - which means she doesn't like you.

You say there is another girl that is interested in you and you want to "game" another girl. WHATEVER.

Apparently you do not know what the f*ck you're doing, go back to porn or something.

 

[PRMoon]

This story is just plain sad and a sorry display of utilizing player skills. First off I have to assume you don't have a cell phone. If you did you probably would have gotten this girls number put in correctly, and her name would have been there along with it. Hence you would not even have needed to dial any numbers. Hell I don't know my room mates phone number to save my life and i've been living with the dude for over a year.

Second when she called you how did you not know who it is and if you don't know who some one is you always always ASK. I've had girls call me out of the blue tons of times who I didn't remember and I never fell bad about asking who it is if I don't know. If they sound like they expect me to know who it is I get angry because I meet a lot of people and those who don't call me at least or twice I shouldn't be expected to know right off the bat. What am I a f*cking phone directory?! So for future reference there is no big issue with asking, if you feel bad about it then apologize first and then ask you won't lose that much ground if you play your cards right.

Why did you invite another girl to an outing you were invited to by another girl? I'm all for utilizing time appropriately but I'd get very distracted if I went into a situation where I knew I had to play on two fronts. Accordingly I usally invite one or two of my wingmen with me if a girl ask me to bring friends. That way I can focus my efforts on the girl who asked me out and the wingmen will talk me up to her and get the low down on her history and "deal" at the same time. Plus if things go sour we could brainstorm a fitting exit strategy if necessary.

But since you've somehow positioned yourself in this debacle, I'd recommend being cool, collected, and insiteful to both the girls but i would make any advances on either while both of them are present. I would work them both over but privately and at strategic moments which either present themselves or you have to create.

 

[TDOT]

Originally posted by DeathDealer
You waited 3 weeks to call a girl. Stupid.

She proposes a group date - which means she doesn't like you.

You say there is another girl that is interested in you and you want to "game" another girl. WHATEVER.

Apparently you do not know what the f*ck you're doing, go back to porn or something.

What are you talking about DeathDealer?
I never left porn!!!