"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1st step of 2 encounters

prowler13

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Ok guys, here it is. 2 target stories that I could use some advice on.

1st target: girl at work, constantly making eye contact with me. invited me out with some friends last week (i didnt go but i took it as a ioi). Constantly very flirtatious, but she's a flirty chick, just a little stronger & more frequent with me. She has a BF, AFC b/c I know for a fact she F***ed some guy in the office about a year ago & she's still w the same guy. So, #1: do I F**k this chick even though I work with her (i think she's a little screwed in the head too), and #2 if so, how should I approach the transition from work to me in her bed?

2nd target: met her downtown outside a bar. I started talking to 3 of her ugly friends (4.0's) then her other 2 friends joined in (6.0's) then she walked over (8.0). her two friends apparently told her to back off and claimed me. I cornered her later in about a 5 min conversation & she told me she was really into me. I gave her my # then I left to go join my friends b/c she said she felt awkawrd hanging w me there with her other two friends there who wanted to stake their claim. While this was all happening, one of my friends cohersed one of the 8 girls off to another bar, so when i went to go meet up with him, it looked as though the 8 gave my # to the 6, and the 6 called me to ask me to let the friend know what bar they were in. that was fri, now it's tues, she hadent called yet. (this is obviously why I should be getting their # on a close). So I still have the 6's # in my phone. Should I call her to get the 8's #, and why wouldnt she call me if she was so interested at the bar?

I hope the details don't kill u guys
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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prowler13

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come on guys

hey guys, your all reading this but not responding. Please...feedback, lol. Anything would help. I have to make a move soon or the target will get stale
 

Badmannaz

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The 1st situation.......

I'm in the same right now a lil bit with this chick at work but i don't want to...i probably could but work is somewhere you see her all the time!!!

2nd situation...

throw a party with all your boys and invite yourfriends and invite the girls including the 8...talk to her at party and get to know her

that's probably what i would do...i'm big on party's for meeting chicks
 
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