"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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1st incident of disrespectful target, call them out on it?

big weezy

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I had my first major public incident of a disrespectful target while trying to pick up. I move my table next to this older woman with huge tits and proceeded to plug in my laptop. I accidently moved the chair she was using to rest her feet and I said sorry and she just gave me this evil look and fake smile. I then asked her about her laptop after couple mins and she just looked at me and looked away.

Didn't say anything acting as if she doesn't speak english. I asked something again in case she didn't hear me and she made some tut and looked into the direction of the coffee shop worker who wasn't around. She was tryna get his attention to get me to stop talking to her but I already took the hint. I felt vilified by her rude behaviour cos she then proceeded to move her table into the corner.

This p1ssed me off cos normal people would answer your question even in a disnmissive leave me a lone sorta way but she wasa just plain rude even tho technically I was hassling her.

Anyway I was furious at how she treated me and I wasant gona walk outta there wthout saying something. So as I leave I go 'when u come to this country there's no need to be a rude *****!' Calmly and walked out.

She wasn't even stunned and goes 'excuse me!' Really loudly. I already had left but it got the attention of the worker and he literally ran out of the shop and tapped nme on the shoulder and said 'she said u forgot something' I was like 'no she was being rude' and shook my head and walked off. But its the fact thaty he ran out that caused a scene as if I stole something causing meajor embarassment with all the onlookers.

The question is would u have done the same thing?

Cause now I've lost 1 of my regular pick up places and caused myself some embarassment. These foreign people think they can act and behave how they want in any country cos they act that way at home. It was like her telling the school teacher to tell me off. Wtf. I can't go back there, least not today or for a while so I don't know if it was worth it but I couldn't walk out of there no sayinjg anything even tho technically I was in the wrong. I'm just not used to such rude people I act rude back.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Slick Rick-NZ

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Good on you mate for having the balls to persue, I have just joined so I won't try to give you any advice yet lol, but we should come up with a few lines that make people look silly and make us look socially superior when we need them in situations like that, will let you know if I think of any.
Check out my first post would apprecitate your opinion as you have courage.
Cheers and good luck with you spot hope you can return normally.
 

Ace_Magnamus

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you have a lot to learn weezy

you were bothering her when you moved her chair

she was annoyed by you moving next to her

then you bothered her more

she ignored you because you were annoying. she also wasn't interested in you.

you just dont go cussing women out in public

you got what you deserved you got embarrassed by her as she one upped you after you cussed at her.
 

FairShake

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She is under no obligation to talk to you at a coffee shop. We all have incidents in our life where people we didn't want to talk to wanted to talk to us. And usually we acted like this woman did. Kind of impolite but really not as bad as she could've been. Women are allowed to go about there day without being bothered. If she doesn't show interest let it go.

Different in bars though.
 
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