"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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1st Day Back To College Report

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Ok, so I went back to college for a fast track course today.

So I walk into the lecture hall with a whole crowd of other people and sit down right next to this HB8 blonde.
I find out that she's going to be in a seperate group from me, but for today when everyone is inducted together. So I can take a shot without fear of consequences.

We go to a classroom and she sits down next to me this time. She and her friend are looking at my passoport photo (we need to give them in for enrolment).
I look up, cover them and laugh cos everyone looks bad on their passport photos.
I ask to see hers. She shakes her head. I go to take it and get pushed away (playfully).
Then when it's stuck on her form, the tutor comes and takes it away and she says
"Aww, you can't look at my photo anymore."
I look her right in the eyes, smile and say
"That's alright, I've got you to look at."
She blushes and looks away and her IL levels are really high from this point on.

We go out for lunch and she buys me lunch because I lost all my money to the car parking metre.
It's all going really well and she laughs at all my jokes.

Towards the end of the day we have to 'interview' someone from the other group and she grabs me to interview.
But then, due to odd numbers in the group, this geek sits down with us and we have to interview him and stuff. So I interview him, he interviews her and she interviews me. She seems a little upset that I'm not interviewing her...but anyways.

We get up to go and I offer her a ride home.
I then get her number, I get a number wrong putting it in. This seems to piss her off. No idea why, but hey.
So we get to the car, she's all smiling and off we go. I drive us smoothly back to her place.

She asks me to drop her on the corner and we get out.
I then walk up to her, smile and say "Can I get a goodnight kiss?"
She says "Yes, but just on the cheek."
A quick peck and she's off. Doesn't say a word.
I can't help but get the feeling that from this conclusion, things have not worked out well, but I have no idea as to where it all went wrong.

Your thoughts?

I got a free lunch, so it ain't so bad
 

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What the hell is that supposed to mean?
 

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You are like a tiger!
 

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Hey good job bro, but I failed to see where you went wrong?
 

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But we're all in agreement that at the end she didn't want to know?

If she's interested she'll call me. She has my number.
I'll probably never see her again and I did get a free meal, so it ain't so bad.

Sarge On!:woo:
 

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
But we're all in agreement that at the end she didn't want to know?

If she's interested she'll call me. She has my number.
I'll probably never see her again and I did get a free meal, so it ain't so bad.

Sarge On!:woo:
:confused:

Is there something I'm missing?

In your first post, you posted that you got her number. So why don't YOU call HER? And I don't understand when you said, " Were all in agreement that at the end she didn't want to know?" Know what?? :confused:

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
If she's interested she'll call me. She has my number.
I'll probably never see her again and I did get a free meal, so it ain't so bad.
WTF is this??

Dude, she took YOU out and bought YOU lunch.

SHE gave you HER number. I don't know what more do you want besides her jumping your bones? She sounded interested to me. All you need to do is be a MAN and call HER up.
 

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What is baffling me is the end of the day.
I got a peck on the cheek and she went. I got a bad feeling.

I believe that this was not good, or are you telling me otherwise?

I am used to women jumpin on me or kissing me like crazy after a first date. Although technically this was not a date...
 

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
... Although technically this was not a date...
Exactly. She just met you So stop tripin. Not every girl that you just met is going to jump on you at the end of the day. Hey I think a peck on a check is better then a handshake or nothing.

And there are lots of other reasons why she didn't kiss you on the lips. Stop overanalyzing over one little thing that didn't go right the way YOU wanted to go. Who knows she maybe really into you and this girl could be the one your looking for but your more likely going to screw it up all cuz she wasn't a slVt after class. :rolleyes:

And how about next time don't ask for a kiss just do some MAVEC and do other things to escalate to it. Come on bro where's your head at? Time to use the search button and do some reviewing.
 

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I am used to women jumpin on me or kissing me like crazy after a first date. Although technically this was not a date...
What world are you from?

Well i suppose earth

she wouldnt have even kissed you on the cheek if she wasnt interested in you a lil bit. Give this girl a break.....why should she kiss or be all over after one date? Geez buddy, slow down your jet engines and have a drink of tea.

She sounds like a decent good girl if you ask me.
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

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From your responses, I'm getting the strong impression that I have been dating complete slvts...which is true.


But do you think I was right to get out of the car and chase a kiss? Or should I have just sat back (and potentially become a 'friend')?
 

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Hahaa brotha you did fine. The only thing I wouldn't of done is asked for a kiss but hey you got it anyway just not the way you wanted it.

Again stop tripin on what she is thinking. You will never know because women are impossible to figure out what’s going on in their little minds. Just check out the last thread of Dreamy Chick :rolleyes:

So be cool bro, stop fretting and overanalyzing and give that girl a call.
 

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i think you were a lil to aggresive with her, but you def. still have a shot. Just keep flirting and using kino on her, girls know guys arent interested in being just friends with them.
 

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I'd read one of the DJ advice things about first days at college and followed it to the letter.

Oh man, did the other guys in my class look jealous :D

But you're right, I need to cool it.
 

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Good Job man. From experience, if a chickd doesnt kiss you ont he first date on the lips it doesnt mean squat. Ive had girls not kiss me on the first date and I end up doing them a week later. Your analyzing this too much. You did good
 

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