"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bobafatt

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So yeah in a nutshell met this chick about 3 weeks ago at a bar. First time we met but we have mutual friends.

We hit it off real well that night great eye contact, touching eachother alot and at the end of the night asked me if she could wear my jacket, which of course she did.

A few of us ended the night back at hers drinking and chatting next thing i know its 6am and i have work in 4 hours!

We became friends on facebook and then left.

Fast forward to now.. have exchanged a couple of messages every other day and in one planted the seed about meeting up, Yesterday i asked for her number and she replied with it and also asking if i was free on sunday.

i text her today telling her i was free late afternoon/evening on sunday and was hoping to see her then, she replied with pefect she finishes at 3 and shes looking forward to it.

My question to you all now do i reply and arrnage and time and place or shall i leave it until sat/sun before replying.

i wana come across as a catch but at the same time not a wet fish

Cheers all
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't over think texting. Just organize a time and place to meet efficiently in the one message chain. Don't confirm the date on the day or before if the woman hasn't flaked on you before. They get one chance. If they do not contact you and don't show up, you next them. If they contact you to cancel you can play it by ear. Sometimes women like to do that to see if a guy is gonna act all crazy. Cancelling can often trigger the psycho guys. If it becomes a habit though, you next them. If their excuse is quite clearly bs you next them. So reply and organize a specific plan and ask her if it's suitable then stop communication. Leave the rest for the date.
 
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