1st date advice

[bobafatt]

So yeah in a nutshell met this chick about 3 weeks ago at a bar. First time we met but we have mutual friends.

We hit it off real well that night great eye contact, touching eachother alot and at the end of the night asked me if she could wear my jacket, which of course she did.

A few of us ended the night back at hers drinking and chatting next thing i know its 6am and i have work in 4 hours!

We became friends on facebook and then left.

Fast forward to now.. have exchanged a couple of messages every other day and in one planted the seed about meeting up, Yesterday i asked for her number and she replied with it and also asking if i was free on sunday.

i text her today telling her i was free late afternoon/evening on sunday and was hoping to see her then, she replied with pefect she finishes at 3 and shes looking forward to it.

My question to you all now do i reply and arrnage and time and place or shall i leave it until sat/sun before replying.

i wana come across as a catch but at the same time not a wet fish

Cheers all

 

[ohrein]

Don't over think texting. Just organize a time and place to meet efficiently in the one message chain. Don't confirm the date on the day or before if the woman hasn't flaked on you before. They get one chance. If they do not contact you and don't show up, you next them. If they contact you to cancel you can play it by ear. Sometimes women like to do that to see if a guy is gonna act all crazy. Cancelling can often trigger the psycho guys. If it becomes a habit though, you next them. If their excuse is quite clearly bs you next them. So reply and organize a specific plan and ask her if it's suitable then stop communication. Leave the rest for the date.