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Hello. I am a 16 year old white (tan) male from southern cali. 6' 2" 175lbs blondish brown hair, varsity track and cross country, pretty popular, not boring, do crazy things (like streak, in a speedo, at my our recent homecoming game when sister up for queen).

Im working out and doing all this stuff so Ill be like perfectly set up in 1 months time. This girl I like is also in track. Shes black tall funny CUTEST smile and GREAT body... oh man.

Anyhow, I have like a few questions and problems. Ill lay it out how it is.

I knew her freshman year from track and she is definately going places (shes fast). Anyhow I didnt realize I liked her until recently. I was fretting all the small stuff she did... How she acted around me made or broke my day, and Im normally extremely confident and un-caring over small things. I finally made it to www.sosuave.com/ thanks to a friend and read up not to make the small stuff and to make her like you first.

Anyhow I am thinking she does as many things happening lately letting me know. One of the big ones was I walked from my 1st period to 2nd class her way a few times, and we didnt say hi too much so I walked a my way. One day she noticed me (but Im positive she didnt see me catching her watching me) and so a bit later she walked MY way and she said hi to me first (when I wasnt even looking) and so I smiled and said Hi back. Later she said Hi at practice and I said hi solemnly cuz I was tired and just got done fooling around. She sat down during stretches seeming all sad the rest of track. I think she is going through what I went through, swetting the small things.

Anyhow Im trying to drop her hints I like her, but not say it. Problem is... I cant drive until mid-summer (even tho my bday is 3/16) and then cant drive another person in the car until around christmas this year.

Ok that is the story. My problem is if we did get together I dunno whatd Id do... lol. I got some awesome FUN ideas for dates, but Id need to drive. Also she sits with like the "black crowd" and I sit up with like a mix of people most my friends and we play hacky sack hehe.

I dont know whered we hang during lunch or snack or whatd we do for dates or when id call or whatd Id say to her. She is the one person I feel SLIGHTLY different around so it affects me. I dunno how Id keep it going and stuff. I need to get to know her more as a friend, but going best friends before dating doesnt work and plus I think my hints and stuff are in too deep if I got friendly shed want to date.

I need some tips... badly. I REALLY like her more than any other girl I met or dated...

Newbie on a Quest,
16socal
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Doh wrong section Im taking this to high school lol, sorry guys.
 
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