"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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100 days 100 sets challenge PART 2

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I failed the first challenge. I got to day 50 something. But I call it a massive success because of the major progress I experienced. I slept with multiple women and got over 100 #s.

Here's how the challenge works.

Everyday for 100 days straight, I have to approach at least 1 new girl per day and ask for her number.

I will be starting tomorrow as I am up north at the moment and there are NO girls to be found.

The rules are simple
1. Approach a new girl everyday
2. Ask for her number
3. Post in this forum everyday


The goal is to become proficient in the cold approach.


Please feel free to do this challenge as well and post your progress in this forum!

Wish me luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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day 1: was yesterday days ago > approached a cutie in dollarama and told her she was beautiful

day 2: was today and approached some cutie in my gym and got her number > i was rusty so I think i came off as being nervous.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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