10-20% on blind date like the NICE GUYS.

[gmm567]

25% like the bad boys. The interesting thing is how these bad boy lovers will say exactly what they want in the pre-date interview but on the date they aren't direct and candid.

Why don't they say: "hey, you're a nice guy but,I prefer screwing criminals and hoodlums." They don't say this becuase they wouldn't keep the upper hand. They wouldn't be saying,"Too Nice, Too square, Too bad," and boosting their egos that another guys wants them; because the guys would be saying , "you're a pathetic, loser chick who deserves zero respect from a decent man and furthermore you're social pariah who will have criminal offspring which a civilized world must crush."

So some of the women who say they want a nice guy actually do want a nice guy( these are the women who are capable of healthy relationships--IMO), but some lie and actually want a hoodlum.

The question is how do you tease their motivation out of them--When they have a motivation to lie?

How do you screen for this? EFFECTIVELY and DECISIVELY!!!!!!!!


Geoff

 

[Craig Reeves]

You may be right about that and you also make valid points...

However, what women PREFER and what women feel attraction for are two completely different things.

I wouldn't say that women feel attracted to BAD BOYS or NICE GUYS, but you need to have that magic combination of BOTH to become what women are attracted to.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

There's a ton of variance between "nice guy" and "bad boys." Why not just spick a spot somewhere between the two.

 

[Jariel]

Yeah, women will say what they want and go for a guy who is the exact opposite.

This is why you should never change for a woman based on what she tells you. Well, you should not change for a woman, period! She either likes you or she doesn't, and changing your personality for her benefit is the ultimate act of supplication and surest way to lose her interest.

The thing is, many of the girls I've been involved with lately have told me "you're not my usual type". One girl said she goes for goths/punks, another said she goes for rugged men and one even admitted she likes bad boys. I'm none of the above, but I didn't need to change to capture their interest.

And let's face it, even as men we can tell that the wannabe badboys are among the most pathetic guys around!

 

[Tazman]

And let's face it, even as men we can tell that the wannabe badboys are among the most pathetic guys around!

I second that, and it never ceases to amaze me how they get these decent looking girls...........then again, the girls turn out to be pretty dense themselves.

 

[PVSSY-EATER]

I dunno...after reading things on this board and this site, I still dont think that any of these techniques are the actual cause of attraction.

I think that most guys come here and remain here looking for a new revelation or the ANSWER, and to sum it up, I just think that women are more attracted to the mind, while men focus more on the matter.

Some of you guys will argue this and probably flame this, but nobody can seem to explain why not-so attractive men get and are attractive to decent women, without them being rich, or popular, or knowing how to dance or whatever....I am not a coverboy myself....but the ONLY thing that I see why women are attracted to me and other men that are not so attractive has to do with the mind of the man.

I am doing some studying on this....