"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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10,000 Posts!

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hmmm i looked at Fransico's post history, and out of 10000 posts, hes never actually started a thread that had any advice or tips or field reports or ANYTHING useful

seems like 10000 posts of wise-azz remarks for an old man who doesn't have a life

but im not gonna waste my time arguing with this bullshyt i have better things to do
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey, I didn't start this thread to bash Francisco!

I remember him giving some money advice. I'm not sure what the thread was but it had to do with meeting women who were jogging around a lake. He said something along the lines that he doesn't "Approach Women" he "engages them". What's the difference you ask? The word "approach" has a negative connotation to it. How does it sound when someone says the sentence "the woman was approached by a stranger". Not good. But engaging women in conversation, no big deal. Charming even. For instance I was at a bar recently and there were some women sitting next to me. I started talking to them. How did I start talking to them? Did I approach? No, I turned to them. You see the difference?

Thanks Francisco for changing my perspective all those years ago and once again Congrats!
 
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Shut the fuсk up. You have 15.36 posts per day - more than DOUBLE Francisco's average. You don't know Francisco, and have no clue what he's all about. Sit the fuсk down, bіtch.


(Mods: Sorry if that was a little crude, but it needed to be said. This guy has no place on SoSuave.)

thats fine that i post that much. Check out some of my threads where i offer real advice man.
 
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