"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mhs09

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Ok what do u do in a situation were ur going to class and u see two hot girls in front of you but u only have one minute to talk to them before your late for class. What do i start out saying and how do i end the conversation in under a minute and sometimes when class is over there might be a chance of running into them again?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Shocker

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If you only have a minute, then you don't have much time to impress. All you can do is look your best, give her a nice smile, compliment something about her very specifically (those are very nice earrings, they match your eyes, etc.) ask for the name, say you'd really like to get to know her better but you have to leave, ask for the number, and jet.
 

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Too less a time dude...
I'd just probably run my opener and move away saying gotta go for a class. Rest , I'll game them later when I have time in my hands.
 

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Smile, open them with a neg opener if they're really hot followed by an opinion question. Ask their names and when they reply be c+f by saying "Im Brad Pitt yet Im trapped in an ugly guys body." or something along those lines and they'll fall for it saying you're not ugly etc.
Get their phone numbers or if you're sure you'll see them again arrange a meeting. Create interest, as Docs said.. Duh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Shocker said:
If you only have a minute, then you don't have much time to impress. All you can do is look your best, give her a nice smile, compliment something about her very specifically (those are very nice earrings, they match your eyes, etc.) ask for the name, say you'd really like to get to know her better but you have to leave, ask for the number, and jet.
Ya make it sound easy. i guess it is, and I just suck. I think i'm too ****ed up lookin for this to work for. ****
 

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come on dude, it's not that big a deal. You don't know this girl, she doesn't know you. If she rejects you, she's not rejecting YOU (she doesn't even know you).

What you need is a game plan, something automatic to fall back on. That's what I gave you. Feel free to improvise if you're feeling confident.
 

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In this case, I sometimes will open with some hook material right then and there. I was once in this situation, I basically was roleplaying that I was security and I told them to hurry and get to class. All three girls started giggling and when I turned and looked back I seen them all moving in slow motion. I was actually surprised because I wasn't expecting them to do anything but keep walking.

If its under a minute I'd hook quickly. (I usually hook around 30 seconds anyway) next 30 seconds you should just qualify and mix it with the # close, or if you think you'll see them again then just talk for the 30 seconds and leave.
 

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so wat i should do is get them with some hook but i dont think trying to act like security would work for me so what other hook material is there and then wat do we talk about. Also they walk pretty fast and they're a grade higher then me
 
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