"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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    Darling, You were wondeful tonight.

    I'd like to start a thread where we identify songs we hear on the radio, Internet and in our cars etc etc which identify with, support and project some of the feminine primacicy societal constructs identified in the rational male. TThese ideas are unhelpful to men who would like to live a life...
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