"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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  1. TheProspect

    Havings kids / Being a father

    I know a lot of you guys have different personal perspectives when it comes to having kids. I have seen various posts on other threads guys mentioning how they never want kids at all. I find it intriguing because becoming a father is probably the experience I look forward to most in life. Not...
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