"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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  1. pyros

    interested girl, then nothing...

    I met this girl around 1.5 months ago while dancing salsa. Talked to her for 1 minute, got her number etc. A few days later I texted her and she seemed not very enthusiastic, giving me short answers etc, so I did not even ask her out. A month later she texted me out of the blue. This time she...
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