"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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    from Alfa to Beta ... and back to Alfa

    Hi all 6 years ago, I ended up in a toxic relationship. I was on the bad side. Anyway. Painful long healing, but it learned me a lot. I started to construct a much more stronger own life. And this with an attitude, that's me. Take it or leave it. Enjoying my time. Really. Travelling a lot and...
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