"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How To Flick Open Their Bra Strap With One Hand

Nighthawk

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Had a couple of PMs regarding this, so I'll share with you all how to perform this guaranteed knicker-wetting move.

I can do this 100& of the time with one lightning-fast flick,usually with my left hand. Women are always shocked and very turned on by this effortless, Fonzie-like skill and it's really not that hard.

Use it when you would normally want to remove a woman's bra, or as a bar-trick that will get you laid.

1. Put your hand up her sweater/boob tube/whatever/ and place your first finger (bent over) against the left clasp of her bra strap.

2. Aply a little pressure so it won't slip, and with your thumb push the right bra strap leftwards, from just behind the clasp. Don't press on the clasp directly or it will not be able to spring out. This will momentarilly cause the bra to tighten a little, but it only needs to move a fraction of an inch to clear the clasp.

3. As the clasps unlock, let go and they should get pulled apart from the sudden lack of tension.

4. Sly smile.

Often the woman will not realise you have undone her bra and will deny it's open. Watch her pupils dilate when she checks and finds the undeniable evidence of your experienced hand.

You can then do this to her anywhere/anytime, not just as a precursor to sex.

I'm sure I'm not the only person here who can do this, but if you can't I suggest you practice now. You will be rewarded for your efforts, I guarantee it.

NB If t'is a front-loader you're ****ed.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chillisauce

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i cant even do it with two hands, bras get the better of me every time :(.
 

ethnomethodologist

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Originally posted by ADifferentKindofDJ
I can do it with my teeth... :crackup:
Me too! Takes some getting used to though. Sad thing, I can't do it no matter how hard I try when drunk:p When it gets tot aht point I kiss her back and give her a quick massage and do the sweeping hand motion to take her bra off.

I love your description Nighthawk, I'm going to try that next time. I use my middle finger and apply the pressure over the exposed part of the bra without touching her skin. I guess it's going to get some taking used to as well.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If it's really tight tho I don't see how you can get a good enough grip when doing it quickly.

Also I always have to kind of pinch it, which makes it kinda obvious since I get her skin sometimes.
 

ethnomethodologist

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There is a stiff part of the bra... the part that inches up her back, that place right in the middle where they always try to swing around to avoid you seeing them scratch...

That's the clasp part, it's stiffer than the remainder of the bra. Your finger rests upon the underfold of her bra(why you use your left hand, it's built like male/female zippers) no matter how tight it is, all you need is the slightest pressure. Than your thumb pushes the overlapping part of the bra towards your other finger, you give it a slight flick(slight pressure again) and the bra will seperate.

Oftentimes when the girl is still wearing her shirt tightly the straps won't fall to her sides. That is why it is a party trick, it feels like nothing has moved, when in reality the hooks are now resting on top of the loops, instead of clasped undereath as is normal.
 
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