"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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B-Lemond

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Step 1: www.sosuave.net

Step 2: Look at the bottom of this post. What do you see? Right. 'The DJ Bible'. Click on 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 3: Read 'The DJ Bible'

Step 4: Go out and apply the knowledge you just learned.

Step 5: Repeat Steps 1-4 until you have finished reading and applying the knowledge from 'The DJ Bible'.

Step 6: At this point you should have enough knowledge to be out there (in the field) with confidence by yourself. Now you start learning new things. Experiment. Experiment. Experiment. Learn new information through your attempts and observations.

Step 7: If you want to share you knowledge post it.
If you have a question do a search beforehand. IF your answer is not found, make a new thread.

Your question will most likely be answered by KBDJ who (if you have read 'The DJ Bible', will not know anything you don't know.) Everyone once in a while a DJ comes along and answers your post. But this DJ is not busy roaming around the forum. Instead he is busy roaming around the field. Observing. Experimenting. Learning.

Step 8: By now you should be very knowledgeable and you are now one of those DJs that come along every so often to answer, help, or discuss with a fellow DJ.

Step 9: If you are still hungry for knowledge, you may go to www.fastseduction.com.
Learning pick-up is only a part of a DJ. You may use these same principles to help you learn how to become a PUA.



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Edit by Vincent: A quick edit because the DJ bible link has moved.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Solid advice bluelemond. I'm gonna sticky this for....like forever.
 
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