"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Affirming the belief that you're desired by women

Krassus

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Here's a quick, easy and extremely powerful way of affirming your status as a man who's desired by women.

Grab a pen or open up Word, and write down the names of each woman you can remember, who desired you on any level. It doesn't really matter what level, so don't worry if you can't list a dozen girls you've laid. Girls who've expressed interest in getting to know you or simply smiled at you will do just fine.

So look back as far as you can remember, even years or decades. The idea is to come up with as many names as possible. If you can't remember names, give them nicknames. For instance, one of mine is 'the indian flight attendant.' Take your time and make sure you write down as many names as you can remember.

Then, when you're done, add short descriptions to each name. Beside 'indian flight attendant,' i have 'tripped when she saw me and asked me to spend the day with her minutes after meeting me.' As you can tell, the description emphasizes her level of interest in me, and for a good reason. Remember, your goal here isn't to describe her wardrobe, but to affirm in your mind the belief that she wanted you.

When you're done, take a look at your list. Read your descriptions and think back, visualize each of those interactions. You feel differently now than you did before creating this list. You feel better. More confident. Attaining success with women suddenly seems easier than you previously thought. These, my friend, are the immediate effects of the belief that you're the prize.

Remember, read over your list at least once a day before you go out. Even if you're going out to the grocery store, read it so that you can walk through the aisles, knowing that if great chick suddenly pops out of nowhere, you've got the goods to get her.

Most importantly, expand your list. Whenever you have something new to add, or if you simply remember something from the past, add it in. As your list grows, so will your success, and as your success grows, so will the list. This will create a never-ending loop that can carry you in no other direction but to success!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Layla

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Whoa! Nice post.

I just did it- and I cant even remember a fraction of the girls who showed interest in me, there are too many. I listed a lot though. Now theres a confidence boost!
 

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A couple years ago, I approached a cute girl in a supermarket. She seemed stunned that I had approached her. The whole time I was talking to her, she had this look on her face like, "Wow, this is a great guy and getting approached like *this* does't happen to me everyday!"

That one encounter has given me a lot of courage. I didn't number close her, but I should have.

Since that time, I've had a two year relationship and am now getting ready to start sarging for chicks again. That one girl from two years ago still makes me think how wonderful the idea of cold approaches is.
 

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This is a great idea. I have thought of this but never wrote it down.

My idea was a mental filmstrip of greatest hits that you play back.

This is really a great tip for guys who've had some success in the past but are in a rut now!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Silverback82

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I actually did this several months back on a boring day and yeah it does make you feel pretty good
 

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A+, five stars or whatever. That is really smart and good thank you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KoalaKing

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Affirmations really do work, I do these things all of the time and it has had a very positive effect on my life.

Writting out a list of girls names is great, but it is better to speak positive things into your subconcious mind whilst you are lying in your bed everynight before you sleep.

I never thought that this would work, but I am very happy that I gave it a go because it really does work, not only with attracting hot babes, but in every other area of your life, do it, you will be surprized by the results. :up:
 

KoalaKing

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:yes: THIS IS WORTH READING - AWESOME - AT LEAST SOMEONE ON HERE CAN WRITE A DECENT THREAD - THANKYOU I LOVE THIS - YOU ARE A TRUE ALPHA-MAN - GOD BLESS YOU :yes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh, sh*t, this is "all-star". Takes a lot of work, actually.

Though... it is a little depressing to look back on all the pun-tang I COULD have had in the past had I just had the nards to step up. D'oh!

Sweet post.
 
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