"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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VIDEO: Texting Sucks

Harry Wilmington

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Hey,

Beating a dead horse into the ground, but... for all you people that say "oh, girls in today's generation are all about texting, you have to text them to reach out to them, otherwise they won't want to talk to you, their mouths don't work and they only know how to communicate with their fingers..." lol, you get the point. Well, here's a video for ya called...

TEXTING SUCKS - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UtrKdBY6cjM

Enjoy!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well you have to text or call to set up a date. Unless you wanna start sending emails like its 2001 and asking for home phone numbers... Yeah I've been to that side of SS... :whistle:
 

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Dude texting does not suck. If you don't want to then don't do it. Is it really that hard??? A lot of us have gotten lays from doing lots of texting, no texting and all points in between. If you know as much as you say you do you should know that there's no universal truth with women.

Have you considered that maybe YOUR texting game sucks????
 

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Bruh I literally got this girl(8.5 for her age) to make out, touching, grabbing. From just texting her. I had never even seen her before. Texting is really important now a days.
 

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*Don't ever take advice from a girl.




































* Disclaimer: this is a sosuave 'in-joke'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Personally I am not a huge fan of texting. I still do it though. I'm 27 and every female I date prefers texts over calls.

The main problem isn't texting kills, its OVER texting kills. Most guys will send a ton of messages to a girl they just met and it just SCREAMS desperate. If used to small talk, set up dates, confirm an address etc then its useful. Texting to ask a girl you just met how her day is...is a no go.

Just my 2 cents
 

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spiegel549 said:
Personally I am not a huge fan of texting. I still do it though. I'm 27 and every female I date prefers texts over calls.

The main problem isn't texting kills, its OVER texting kills. Most guys will send a ton of messages to a girl they just met and it just SCREAMS desperate. If used to small talk, set up dates, confirm an address etc then its useful. Texting to ask a girl you just met how her day is...is a no go.

Just my 2 cents
Yeah that's at the beginning. Can't over do it.
 

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spiegel549 said:
...every female I date prefers texts over calls.
If YOU like to text, text.

If you're texting because girls "prefer" texting then it's a no go.

I never had a girl become uninterested in me because I called her when she "preferred" a text.

Of course, common sense suggests you should call and text when either is necessary.
 

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Is this who you get all your dating advice from Harry? Some mediocre looking chick off a You Tube Video?

You and others have been beating this horse dead for almost 2 years now.

This texting argument between you and others is really old. Nobody is taking it seriously anymore. In fact, it's getting more annoying than these BPD threads. Your texting argument has been taken a part by posters in here.

Harry, you have to understand that there are billions of people in the world. There is always one person out there that is not going to like something. I know a girl who hates pizza. Does that mean every girl hates pizza? No. She would give me a biased opinion about pizza because she doesn't like to eat it. The opinion of one chick in a video about texting shouldn't matter when there are millions of other chicks who think different.

I find it quite strange that you would base all your texting opinions on the advice of one chick. I don't take a guy seriously who takes advice from a chick anyway.

I can tell you one thing though, this chick would be texting some dude that she thought was hot and wanted to get boned by. Then all of her "advice" wouldn't mean sh1t. Guys, never take what chicks say seriously at all, especially when it comes to stuff like this.

I personally don't like texting myself, but I don't go around making bogus claims that it sucks or doesn't work because most girls will text you.

The girls that I meet all end up texting me. It's something that you can't really avoid. I'm not sure why you aren't getting texts from the women you try to date.

Most of dating is common sense, never do too much of anything, don't take advice from a mediocre looking chick, and you will do fine.

Harry, what's up with all this bad advice you're giving?


Frayzer said:
Well you have to text or call to set up a date. Unless you wanna start sending emails like its 2001 and asking for home phone numbers... Yeah I've been to that side of SS... :whistle:
Actually, sending an email is texting so that wouldn't work.


yyc12 said:
Dude texting does not suck. If you don't want to then don't do it. Is it really that hard??? A lot of us have gotten lays from doing lots of texting, no texting and all points in between. If you know as much as you say you do you should know that there's no universal truth with women.

Have you considered that maybe YOUR texting game sucks????
Well, you can't argue with any of this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Harry Wilmington said:
for all you people that say "oh, girls in today's generation are all about texting, you have to text them to reach out to them, otherwise they won't want to talk to you, their mouths don't work and they only know how to communicate with their fingers..." lol, you get the point. Well, here's a video for ya called...

TEXTING SUCKS
Girls text when they can't use their mouths, it's an easy way for them to talk. I think that you think texting is the ONLY way people are talking, that isn't true. Texting is just another way to talk when you can't really talk. You're supposed to be a relationship expert?
 

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Bıtches don't even know how to speak courteously on the phone even if you do call them! Business-wise and personally. You gotta up your text game, it's a requirement. Keep it short and you're golden.
 

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There is way too much emphasis put on texting on here. It's such a minor part of interactions, it's simply a way to keep in touch with someone when they're not face to face. The debate in general is probably causing more problems for guys because they'll end up getting too caught up in this rather than what's actually important. It's time to drop the whole debate, it's a load of crap and get onto topics which are more important.
 

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Mr Wright said:
There is way too much emphasis put on texting on here. It's such a minor part of interactions, it's simply a way to keep in touch with someone when they're not face to face. The debate in general is probably causing more problems for guys because they'll end up getting too caught up in this rather than what's actually important. It's time to drop the whole debate, it's a load of crap and get onto topics which are more important.
I agree with this mostly.

Texting is a valuable, valuable tool. Harry, i completely understand where you are coming from.

For those who are adequate or less than adequate at text game... by texting more than minimally, you will shoot yourself in the foot.

BUT, for those with very solid text game, texting can do anything ranging from merely raising her interest level a small amount ....to ramping up her interest level to such a degree that she is wet and begging for your c0ck.


I believe there is a middle ground here.

These days, texting is a crucial skill in game and one that is a requirement. However, it is just one of many parts of your game and if other parts of your game are lacking, then it is of little importance how good your text game.

Before I was good at text game... I hated texting. I believed that everything I said put me one step closer to blowing it with a girl. However, once I became good at it, I felt like I had a one up on almost every other guy around me, and I have the firm belief that I can use texting to turn an otherwise dead lead into a potential hookup or date.
 

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I fvcking HATE 18 year old girls with terrible body language and voice tonality like this one... Accentuating words by jumping with her whole body, making spastic faces like she's eating a lemon or changing the pitch of her voice like one does when being startled. Can't they just talk in a NORMAL manner?

I'd rather text this chick than talk to her in real life, I can tell you that...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have no idea how a guy could run MLTRs without texting.

I often text chicks when I'm out with other chicks. I'll text chicks while sitting on the couch watching a movie with one of my girlfriends. I can't exactly sit there talking with the other girl on the phone.

Like "slut shaming," this is something I cannot fathom about the "advice" given here. I think 90% of the advice given on Sosuave is by guys who have absolutely no experience with chicks. I simply don't understand it.

How can I lie in bed in one girl's apartment while she's asleep and have two simultaneous conversations with other women without using text messaging? Someone please tell me.
 
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