"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I went to the Santa Anita Derby today. I normally do not make triple crown preditions a month early, but California Chrome is the best (american) 3YO horse i think i have ever seen. He's a freak of nature and i don't see how he loses the derby and could very well take the triple crown


what excites me about California chrome unlike other horses, he has not been babied. he wasn't expected to be good so they ran the **** out of him as a 2YO and he turned out to be pretty freaking good. he has the foundation to run 3 times in 5 weeks and he hasn't been asked to run once all year long and he's blowing horses, good ones, out.


there is another horse,Bayern who should run in the Arkansas derby next week and if he does what i think he will do, he will be the best shot to beat CC.. but CC has gears like i have not seen out of an american horse. he gallops faster than other horses run.


right now i like

1. California Chrome
2. Bayern
3. Tapiture
4. Untappable (filly)
5. Strong Mandate
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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California Chrome is gonna win this race. Pretty Easily at that.
 

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I meant to post a thread before the Kentucky Derby to get your take, but it slipped my mind. I put my money on CC to win too. Especially after I studied the field and saw how many horses had scratched or decided not to race in the KD. I did want to see Uncle Sigh do well, and he did for awhile but ended up 14th. He's owned by a guy from my hometown so I had to pull for him. I also thought Medal Count would do better then he did. I think I'll bet CC to win the Preakness and then wait and see for the Belmont.
 

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California Chrome is gonna win the preakness today, but Bayern is going to make him fight for it and it's gonna be a lot closer than a 2/5 should win a race by. Bayern is legit.

Social Inclusion will get hype but he's garbage and will fold like a lawn chair in the stretch
 

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WE'RE GOING TO THE BELMONT

I'm actually gonna go see this live, beucase he's gonna win the triple crown. New york New York!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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