“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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There's always a benefit in having women as friends

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There's some chicks I have as friends that I'm not sexually interested in. The benefit to that is they hook me up with discounts and free stuff. They will also introduce me to better looking women that they know. I get all the good benefits plus these women are actually cool people to know. So there's no reason why you can't have women as friends. Women who like you, will do cool things for you. Because they think in their minds that you might like them someday. Obviously, you don't want to be friends with women who rejected you. They won't help out very much. Don't disregard a chick because she doesn't look so good. She can always help you out some way in the long run. Women use men that they aren't attracted to get what they need. So, you can always have women around to help you out too. It's always good expanding your social circle. Because you never know who can impact your life and make it better. You become a better man too. :up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Idd! I have some female friends in my social circle in my hometown but they can be attentionwh0res when the guys are around, and they are pretty much competing with each other to get the girls attention.
But I have this one girl on my class (were both 24) which i know for a lil longer than a year. She's pretty much the sweetest girl I know and I think she's pretty cool too. She does all kinds of favours for me without me even asking her, and she's never a being a b!tch. I can't really say something bad about her, she's a bit weird sometimes I always enjoy her company.
Lately she's even giving me her apartment keys in the weekend (which is was her idea btw and i even rejected her offer a few times at first) since she goes to her hometown in the weekend and I usually go party in the city and i can crash there instead of going home really fcked up.
I don't know why but i never putted her on the to-bang list, she's not ugly (5-6).
I never had a female friend like this since there weren't any girls in high school (Oh the horror! :D), so i don't know what to expect from this girl.
 
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I agree completely. It's also good social proof.
 
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Agreed. You will be called a "vagina" by the fake DJ's on this site but it is great for your social status and yes they will hook you up with other women and get you free stuff.
 
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agreed, one of my female friends is a girl I wanted to date but she has a BF so we ended up as just good friends instead.

I used to do a lot of stuff for her, but she was always willing to do stuff for me, and now I can't do anything for her(no more classes together) but we still talk and we're still friends(and unfortunately, she still has that BF).
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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This is a good post because it differentiates between being friends with women you don't want to fvck vs those you do. If you're friend zoned/rejected by a chick or you desperately want to bang her and have oneitis for her, being friends will do you more harm than good. That's why I just tell FZ'd guys to cut it off.

It's easy to be friends with a chick you don't want to fvck or you would fvck but don't have oneitis for because she's not your only option.
 
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Have good female friends but don't drown yourselves in them to the point that you become unapproachable because that lady across the room that fancies you thinks she's your girlfriend or something.
 
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I disagree, female friends that don't put out are the most annoying of all. If you don't have good guy friends who would do the same for you then you're doing it wrong.
 
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thatfeel said:
I disagree, female friends that don't put out are the most annoying of all. If you don't have good guy friends who would do the same for you then you're doing it wrong.
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Why would you disagree? Wouldn't you want to get some cool sh1t too?

You're missing the point here. I'm not attracted to them. So, I don't want them to put out. I bang the chicks I want to bang, and keep other girls as friends.

These chicks help me get cool stuff. Stuff my buddies can't even hook me up with. Things that I wouldn't even have if I didn't know these girls. I got discounted clothes, concert tickets, airline tickets. hotel discounts, you name it. One chick has a friend who is going to refurbish my '71 Camero for dirt cheap.

Some of these chicks hooked me up with their friends and relatives who are hot. The chicks who I would actually date and bang.

Getting ahead in life is all about connections. If you don't take advantage of what can be offered to you, then you're doing it wrong.

If chicks I meet and befriend can help me out, I'm going to take advantage of it. I would be stupid not to. I'm not talking to these chicks all the time. They are cool people I have as friends and they help me out.

Not everything is about getting a lay. Bang the chicks you want to bang, and keep the others as friends. It's worked out for me quite well.
 
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rascal99v said:
Getting ahead in life is all about connections. If you don't take advantage of what can be offered to you, then you're doing it wrong.
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Well said :up:
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I love my female friends. Even the ones I want to bang, some of them I have once or twice. And they have given me access to women through their social circles. Win, win.
 
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Yes. I have gotten a good number of lays simply by virtue of being friends with girls. The trick is always making them think they have a chance.
 
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I completely agree.
woman knows other woman, that should be enough reason to have friendship with girls.
JUST DON'T FALL IN ****ING LOVE WITH YOUR FRIEND...
 
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rascal99v said:
Not everything is about getting a lay. Bang the chicks you want to bang, and keep the others as friends. It's worked out for me quite well.
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Same here.

I have one HOT female friend. Good for the inner Ego.
 
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