"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Being persistent with a chick who "only wants to be friends" is a waste of time

buzzin_frog

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A woman will determine whether she will sleep with you or not within the first few minutes of meeting you!!

Either you will be the dude banging her shortly.....or the friend who gets to hear all her stories about the other dudes banging her.

You don't want to be the guy who is her "shoulder to cry on".....you want to be the guy she is crying about!!

So, if you are the designated friend from the start......you won't be getting laid because you were demoted from the beginning!!

So, why would you want to be persistent with a chick who has no intentions of fvcking you?.....that's a total waste of your time...unless, you like getting off at hearing her stories about the other men.

If you try anything with her......all or any of these outcomes will happen

1. She will be flattered, but reject you

2. She will reject you

3. She will feel weird about it

4. She will get mad

5. She will tell you off

All resulting in a "I don't think of you that way" and "we can no longer be friends" lecture.

What's the point of that? Why waste your time being coffee buddies? That's what she has her girlfriends for

The only way you should be persistent is if there are clear signs of interest.......if you don't bang her on the second date, then you should be persistent for the third date.

Being persistent as a friend is a waste of time, because there is no goal that you can achieve.....you are stuck as a friend and that is all that you are going to be.

Have friends banged other friends? Sure they have.....but the chick didn't automatically designate the guy as a friend....the chick still has a thing for the guy even though they are "friends"

So, if a chick tells you she only wants to be friends....then you are wasting your time because in her mind, that is all she will ever think of you as....and if you try to escalate, then you friendship will be over.....so, then what good was being friends if it can never lead to anything more?

Remember, your goal in dating is to bang as many chicks as you can

Your objective is to spend the least amount of time, money, and effort on women

And how the hell can you accomplish any of that if you are busy being friends with chicks?

Chicks who just want to be your friend are a lost cause.....because you've been rejected and demoted.....you will never be anything more than a friend

Be persistent with the women that you have a chance to actually bang

Don't waste you time on uninterested chicks.......bang the chicks who are interested instead!!


For more information on developing the DJ Mindset......check out my thread!!

Buzzin' Frog's 10 Golden Rules For The DJ Mindset

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=205938


Uninterested chicks won't fvck you

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=208637
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Valentino14

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Mostly orbiters are persistent in trying to give the girl validation. Don't get friend zoned always be the guy she wants to have sex with.
 
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