Hya, been seeing a girl for a while now, and she never tells her ex husband about me. They have to have regular contact, even when im not there, as they have a kid together. I feel,like,she is hiding me, and I cobfronted her about it, and now shea giving me extensice silent treatment...And Ideas why...P.S we havent has sex in nearly 2 months, and she claims to be 2 month pregnant with my kid...??

Be brutal cos this is getting me down! Any advice appreciated fellas

Run like hell!!!!!!

she is still sucking off her EX. just think about that next time you kissher
I am willing to bet as well, he broke up with her.

horaholic said:

Run like hell!!!!!!

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Actually, if the kid is yours, you have a responsibility to look after it (unless you play hardball and try to get the ex to be cuckolded and support the kid).

Apparently paternity testing can be confirmed before the child is born. Here's some info to get you started:

http://ezinearticles.com/?DNA-Paternity-Guideaternity-Testing-Before-A-Childs-Birth&id=368992

http://www.cytomation.com/info/pre-natal-or-post-birth.htm


Get her to take the tests before the child is born. DO NOT sign any birth certificates otherwise or if you are unsure.

Here's the possible scenarios:

1) She won't do it ===> then follow Horaholic's advice.

2) She does it, but you are not the father ===> then follow Horaholic's advice.

3) You are the father ===> Either support the kid or play hardball and hope she goes back to the ex to raise the kid.

Just push her down the stairs, make sure she lands on her stomach, then run like a hell. If a girl wouldn't put out of 2 weeks, she is EXIT.

1. Frequent contact with ex, forbids you from seeing ex?
2. No sex in 2 months?
3. Extended slient treatment?

Do you best to sit down and talk to her like an adult and get tested. If not, just dump her and don't look back. Seems like she got what she wanted from you, another kid (hopefully not yours) and 18 years of financial support. Better start thinking about getting a high paying cash job.

Dna

Dont think the DNA test would be necessary, hes black, Im white... Would make for an interesting moment in the delivery room...