can i escape it?

the 1st date no friend zone, 2nd date, no friendzone, then i act afc, lost her, got her back a month later, made the wrong choice of date location for 3rd date yesterday didnt get to kino her got friendzoned, attempted kiss close at end of the date despite no rapport built, then i sent text today to say i was not sorry for trying to kiss her but i understood i was moving too fast (she told me on the date i was moving too fast last time hence why we didnt have our 3rd date till now) i think i may have messed up again by attempting the kiss,

can i escape this friendzone?

she clearly must like me enough if she keeps giving me these chances to redeem myself. but im doing way too much chasing.

should i just cool it for a few days before i contact her again?

im suppose to teach her how to play golf this week.

You said it yourself right here. You're chasing too much. She's not reciprocating, which says she does not like you enough. This is the 4th topic you've started about this girl. Sounds like you have some oneitis. I think the best thing you could do would be to let her go and pursue some other women.

BTW, what is so special about her that you felt compelled to start 4 topics about her?

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she clearly must like me enough if she keeps giving me these chances to redeem myself. but im doing way too much chasing.

You said it yourself right here. You're chasing too much. She's not reciprocating, which says she does not like you enough. This is the 4th topic you've started about this girl. Sounds like you have some oneitis. I think the best thing you could do would be to let her go and pursue some other women.

BTW, what is so special about her that you felt compelled to start 4 topics about her?

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but she doesnt trust me.. she still doesnt feel special and deep down feels that i was interested in her friend then moved on to her.. i dont know how to protest my innocence to her or to prove that i only like her and only have. how do you do this?

i dont know why i have oneitis with this girl, its the 1st time in my life i met someone who i was happy to wait to sleep with, usually i just want to bang them quickly as possible, for some reason this one im just happy to sit and talk to. its so strange.