“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Whats your way to get it the mood/state . Share it

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Ok , i think you all know the importance of being in mood before going out .
But we're not always in good mood . So , whats your way to get in the mood ?

Share it with us , its very helpful .

Share your ritual :p

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Ok , my way is a bit weird , but it works on me .Firsty i put my favorite music , than run around the house , scream , dance and do like this . Also sleeping is before going out is great . Always do it .

I actually made a thread on how to feel good before going out , but i really wanna know your way of getting in mood .

Please share it , it may come useful to some members here that definitely need it .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This might sound crazy, but I just delve deep into my melancholy state.

I put on some blues, (or the opposite of hype club get ready music), sip a little whiskey, and slowly but surely get dressed. I sigh a lot, but get through the mascara and earrings. By the time my ride shows up, I usually am feeling a little better, if nothing else than because I have zero expectations for anything, and can feel a buzz coming on, and was listening to some good music. It's like playing to my devil may care side.

These nights tend to turn out pretty great. My humour is off the scale, and people are attracted to me like moths to a flame.
 
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Then you can sit around and wait for guys to approach you.

I think the OP was more, how do guys get pumped up so they can get in that vibe of being confident so they can approach women.
 
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reset said:
Then you can sit around and wait for guys to approach you.

I think the OP was more, how do guys get pumped up so they can get in that vibe of being confident so they can approach women.
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UM.... I was going by his OP.

He said how do you get in the mood to go out period, when you don't feel like it period. I took that as when you are feeling less than stellar PERIOD, and not really in the mood to be amidst many people in a public place that may include other drunken people, dancing, and the likes.

And there is more to a girl going out then "sitting around and waiting for guys to approach you".

Don't worry about my posts, thanks. Why don't you contribute something instead of trying to knock the ONE contribution thus far.
 
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I think he meant if you're a guy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Find yourself a theme song.
 
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I think he meant if you're a guy.
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Good damn lord. Does it really matter? Getting in the mood is kind of across the board whether you are female or male, white or black, stupid or smart.

My advice works for either gender, depending on whether or not you are a deep introverted person prone to moodiness, not if you are male or female.

Once you get your mind right, or get in the mood (using my technique or the one you have yet to post), then everything else falls into place. Whether your goal is to just have a good time out, or approach mad b!tches, or be approached by countless AFC's (as I am sure you imagine it to be for me since I have a pvssy). Whether it is to laugh and be merry, dance, or just find one person to take home.

Gender is irrelevant when it comes to fixing your mental state.

Please stop clogging up other peoples' potentially good threads with your own preconcieved ideas. No offense.
You've added nothing to this thread.
 
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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
People please. Dont assume he just meant guys. She's a member of this forum too, and even though she's a female, she's entitled to her opinion, whether you agree with it or not, so quit bickering. I thought you were meant to be older than me anyway?:confused:
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Do you notice how naturals get into state without even knowing what they are doing?

-They put on loud music
-They start to howl like yyyyyyeeeeeeeeaaaaaaa wwwwwwoooooooo and sh!t (unstifleing)
-They start saying hi to all the strangers they see
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jump in the shower
Have a shave
Pump up my favourite tunes
Make myslef look like a million dollars
and prepare myself to go out on another adventure into the wild.

explore attack and conquer ;) all in the manner of having fun of course hehe.
 
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THIS is my way http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=144273
THE NIKE SLOGAN COMES TO MIND!
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lol good point , but i dont plan joining in . Easy tasks .

Im very social and i can say hi to everyone i want and i can initiate a conversation with anyone i want . No anxietys .

Ive done my personal bootcamp and i no longer have problem approaching , starting conversation or attracting girls .

Im just looking for a good way to get in the mood . I have my way (posted up there), but i wanna get some new fresh ideas :p

Anyway , good luck with your bootcamp . It takes balls of steel to start doing bootcamps :cheer:
 
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Lol I'll tell you after thursday nights clubbing... and whether it worked well.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have seen that at times, when I am not that upbeat, dancing and singing along to some rock and jumpy music really helps. also talking out and letting it go when being social with random people pumps me up.

There is no theory, but I have found that whatever the state, just start acting like you are on the top of the world and it instantly kicks into yourself. Don't bother too much about changing your state!

Don't you look at me like that, girl.....
 
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Two ways:

1. Call/meet up with a girl(s) that your friends with. someone who you can flirt with freely, and have her flirt back as well. This works so well because it gets you in the right mindset and makes you feel great. Sometimes this isn't possible so...

2. Yell random **** really loud... always fun, except when the neighbors are outside:up:
 
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I found a great way that works for me now .

Before , i was using alcohol to get in the mood . Now , its different :p . I banned alcohol because girls we're asking me all the time " ARE YOU DRUNK " . Fvck it . Now i only drink strawberry juice .

Ok , here's my way . I apply all these steps when i want to have a day with ultimate success :D :

Talk to parents , friends and everyone to get in talkative mood .

Sleep - to feel energic

Eat good because when im hungry im nervous .

Go on the shower , put on my favorite songs that inspire me and dance and sing while getting shower .

Wear my favorite clothes , shave , make myself look great :D . Put colognes and sh1t and my confidence raises .

When i go out with my friends , we talk very loud . And we laugh alot . This helps too .

Now , comes the real part .The part that makes me feel like the SH!T :p .

Approach some sets in the first moments . Almost always get good responses . This boosts my confidence and state , and for the rest of the night , im unstoppable :p . Hope this helps a bit . Give it a shot . Approach :D .

Share your way too .
 
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I normally meditate, drink some tea.

Then shower, down 2 redbulls, watch "Smack My ***** Up" and bounce.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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