"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: scallywag

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Its been a long time since I've been in 3some territory so after this happened, I thought to myself, I've got to post a FR. Me & 2 friends (one best friend and his roommate) head out of town to play cards & get away. Its a 2 hour drive, we rent a car, I get $35 hotel rooms through work. We get there, buddy loses $400 playin cards, Im down minor so we call it a day.

Go back to the hotel room, play drinkin games, get half snapped, go to a strip club. Actually have a great time there, then decide to go to a country bar. Turns out it has a country bar name but there playin dance music so we bail and go home disappointed, but drunk and overall had a good time.

Next day, I wake up at 730am, can't sleep. Bored as fvck, I start drinkin and listening to music. They get up at 10, go to look for swim trunks but its Sunday so nothing is open till noon. They come back, I'm gettin wasted by this point. Noon comes and they go get shorts, we go to the pool, I bring a drink. theres a couple in the pool so I keep it low key.

about 45 mins later, were gettin ready to leave and a group of girls come in. buddy was on his way out but correctly makes the right play and comes back in after goin to the shower room for 2 mins. Me & bud, totally go into player mode, doin everything we can subtely to make friends. Its workin, were in and out of the hot tub, into the steam room and pool, playin it cool and we get an invite later to party with them.

well one thing leads to another, we escalate with one girl and leave with her to go smoke a joint. well wasn't she a scallywag and want to party. boy did we have a good day.

so after a long day of partying, me & buddy were like whatever happens happens, whoever gets her, gets her. well midnight comes, were burnt out and stupid for not forcing the issue, they both lie down in bed, I'm like fvck it, I'm not gettin left out, take off my pants and jump into bed. Me & buddy are doin our best to feel her up etc... without touchin each other, then she kisses me and I know I'm in even though I know he was fingerin her.

So at this point is where it got awkward. I didn't know how to bring him into the picture, I've usually been the one brought into the picture, i've never had the lead. An alarm went off, so that was his que to go turn it off and leave that bed. but then we changed positions a couple times and I felt like I should invite him in, but I didn't want to be rude so I didn't, although I know I should have.

so we pass out, I wake up a few hours later, roommate has come home from the bar after takin fatty with him and nailin her apparantly. I decide to put one more show on for the boys and had her moanin so loud for them.

all in all a great time, a learning experience but still a little disappointed, I didn't play it better for buddy. although he was totally happy with the experience.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A little history on buddy, he's your typical AFC although he does have game. He thinks that a guy should only ever be with 1 women, that you have to put them on a pedastool etc...

How should I handled it? Would you have done anything differently? When we were both in the bed, I tried to give him the chance to get in there but he didn't really make a move so I finally made my move. Luckily for him an alarm clock went off and he got up and moved to the other bed.

The next day, he was happy with what he got and had no hard feelings with what I did. Again his afc shining through.
 

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Do you know why you're gay? :)

Because you were in bed with your schlong hangin' out with another naked gay, all to F some *****.

No thanks.

Standards my friend.

But hope you had fun! :)
 
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