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Should I wear this for halloween?

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I love Halloween, I love dressing up, girls are all slutted out etc. Anyways, I normally go for a "funny" costume. This year I was considering a spartan from 300. The way I see it if you are going to be a spartan you have to be in one of two groups:

1. Morbidly obese, because come one, the irony would be hilarious.

2. In ridiculous good shape. Fully ripped, 6 pack, etc.

The thing is I am far from 1, but not near 2.

I don't have the confidence in my self to decide so I will....ask an internet message board...do you guys think I can pull it off?

I've included some pics. Let me know if they do not work.

I am 5'7, ~153, <10%BF, you can kinda see the abs but not quite there, I feel so silly even asking this but again I think I have self image issues.

However, the other factor was to get extremly drunk at which point I probably wont care how I look. The other plan was to wear a random costume a few nights before the big party on Saturday and kinda scout out how all the other spartans look.

Your input is greatly apperciated.

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I guess I am just self concious about my looks and lack confidence in that area but thanks for the input
 
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The spartan suit fits you well, and there's your chance of "innocently" showing off your body :p
 

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Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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I have an opposite party to go to for halloween.

My girlfriend is going as me.
I am going in my best female friend's old cheerleader's outfit. Suprisingly it fits me better than it fits her. I guess I got the cheerleader's form with a six pack :p

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Espi said:
@ the OP:

Wear what you want.

There are likely going to be a few men at your party dressed in a costume they maybe should not be wearing...who cares? Just go out and have fun, and fvuck what other people think...it's your body.

What you wear to expose your skin is not important; it's how you feel inside your skin that matters.
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I totally agree that is the ideal mindset and I often carry that but not quite there completely. Like I said, I think I have self image issues (admittance is the first step right...or is it denial?) When I was younger/growing up I would get crap for being scrawny/short so my insecurities are there, thus thats why I asked, I would hate to go, see 300 other Spartans and the others are completely cut up.

My other costume is Michael Vick one, I could care less about offending people or being PC (to a certain degree) so I might wear that to a few smaller parties before deciding ont he Spartan for the big one.

Thanks agian for everyones opinions tho
 
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lol 300 guys dressed as spartans. that would be awesome. just walk around your local town with a massive group of spartans.. awesoem
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LMAO< that would be sick. And at about 4 am in the morning... in a housing area....have one really loud guy shout '' This is SPARTAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!''
then all the other guys roar and cheer.

Man that would be sick!!!!!!!
 
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BenPW-DJNewbie said:
LMAO< that would be sick. And at about 4 am in the morning... in a housing area....have one really loud guy shout '' This is SPARTAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!''
then all the other guys roar and cheer.

Man that would be sick!!!!!!!
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oh man i really gotta try that one

Anyway like someone said above wear what u want and have fun.

BTW loved the smiley face thing :D
 
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who gives a damn what you want to wear! wear what ever you want! common dude.
 

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