She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
badgm's57 said:safe sex is no sex thats the bottom line.
sex seems leads to trouble one way or another.
how do you mean, after? like you pulled out and it stayed in?judoalex said:i had sex with a chick and i dont know wy but my condom fell off after my ejaculation, what is the percentage of getting a std without a condom like aids?im ****ing worried
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I'm presuming teh chick is liek a girlfriend?judoalex said:i had sex with a chick and i dont know wy but my condom fell off after my ejaculation, what is the percentage of getting a std without a condom like aids?im ****ing worried
d9930380 said:However the odds are extremely low for straight sex but to be sure, get a std check. Even if the girl has something then it's still quite low.
Moved to AE; closed.diablo said:Facts and figures are completely meaningless in this capacity. Either you get an STD or you don't. There is no way to accurately determine the probability of your contracting a disease based on what the profession of the woman you sleep with is. In short, if the girl has a disease, and the condom breaks, you're screwed. If she doesn't have one, and it breaks, you're okay. If she doesn't have a disease and the condom breaks, you're okay. If she does have a disease and the condom doesn't break, you're okay. If she doesn't have a disease and the condom doesn't break, you're okay. If she's a waitress and she has a disease, and your condom breaks, you're screwed. If she's a stripper and doesn't have a disease, and the condom breaks, you're still okay.
Since this question is rather pointless and has no accurate answer; closed.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.